First Dates.....

[TrixX]

geeeeeeeeez, i know coffee is cheap.......and i got a tea so it wasn't even $2 :( hahahahha. seriously though...........dinner just wasn't gonna happen this week! and i wanted my date NOW!!

put out........good tip! so i figure coffee only wagers maybe $5 worth of contact(thats barely a kiss). where-as a full fledged dinner on the other hand..........what do you think you get for $50????? ;)

[mojo]

road head, or maybe back at his place

[Revolver]

jesus christ shayna who gose out for 'coffe' at our age?...

thats for highschool kids,desperate 40 year olds,and boring people....

a good frist date is too:
the firing range
the batting cage
the airport
the arcade
the local seedy pool hall.

'coffe' 'drinks and a appy','dinner and a movie' are fucking lame first dates and feel more like a job interveiw.no wonder your nerves are shot.

oh paintball is a pretty good first date i had too....nothing says i dig you like being shot in the face with a paintball...

you know youve scored when you can both laugh about that afterwards.

and kity kat a overly boozy girl is fun on the short term.;)

[hardstylin]

Originally Posted by TrixX

put out........good tip! so i figure coffee only wagers maybe $5 worth of contact(thats barely a kiss). where-as a full fledged dinner on the other hand..........what do you think you get for $50????? ;)

is that how it works?! :nuts:

[TrixX]

^^^^^^OMG!!!!!!!!!! WE ONLY HAD AN HOUR!!!!!!!!!!!

if theres a 2nd date i will take everything but pool and paintball into consideration!

*edit* for mr.revolver

[Revolver]

Originally Posted by TrixX

^^^^^^OMG!!!!!!!!!! WE ONLY HAD AN HOUR!!!!!!!!!!!

if theres a 2nd date i will take everything but pool and paintball into consideration!

if thats too my post...

obviously not all at the same time...hahaha

[TrixX]

Originally Posted by Revolver

if thats too my post...

obviously not all at the same time...hahaha

hahahaha, i referring to your comment about coffee being lame. and i was stating that we only had an hour so that was kind of our default option.

we didn't stay there, we grabbed coffee and walked around english bay and stanley park......i thought it was kind of nice :embarrest:

[rawb]

MY MIND IS TELLIN ME "NOOOOOO"

[rawb]

BUT MY BODY
MY BODY IS TELLIN ME "YEAAAAH-YESSSSS"

[rawb]

BAAABY

[rawb]

I DON'T WANNA HURT NOBODY

[rawb]

BUT THERE IS SOMETHING I MUST CON-FEH-EH-AH-EH-AH-EHHH-ESS




..

(TO YOU)

[rawb]

I DONT SEE NOTHING WRONG
WITH A LITTLE BUMP AND GRIND
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[-evil-duerr-]

Originally Posted by hardstylin

i have never been on a "date"

they dont exist in small towns.

ya small towners don't call it dating, we call it hanging out...

and hanging out basically just means 'doing it'.

seems like relationships are more likely to form from sloppy encounters at a house party/bar than they are from old school courtship methods like first dates.

[prozac]

^that's too bad.

I like the sense of tradition in the dating dance, and it doesn't have to formal and stuffy or boring, it can be really fun. :)

So, Shayna, will there be a second date?!

[NinjaBoy]

The first few dates are always good because they are still trying. Take the effort and witty remarks you have on the first date, cut it down 75% and that's what you can look forward to for date 5.

That and the expectation of sex. Delicious awkward sex.

[TrixX]

Originally Posted by prozac

So, Shayna, will there be a second date?!

i haven't heard from him :( :embarrest:

[t-skywalker]

i went on a date to fright night last night. it was a great date idea:D nothing like huge spinning rides together with halloween added to the mix hehehehehe. weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee(unless your scared of this!!!which by the way was so much fun!!!)


i wish you luck my little shayna<3

[TrixX]

Originally Posted by t-skywalker

i wish you luck my little shayna<3

awww thanks babe. i should totally hit up some halloween festivities, i'm such a kid at heart haha.

[t-skywalker]

its devils night;) DUNDUNDUN

[Lush]

First date implies you don't know the person well so I actually think coffee is a brilliant idea

I've been on MANY dates and honestly unless you're already friends with the person or have a pretty decent idea of what they're all about go for coffee.
Coffee is quick, efficient and basically filters out the crazies - you don't have to sit there and have it be awkward while you wait for your food, you figure out if you like them enough to go on a second date.

Plus in those instances where you meet a guy at a bar or a club and you're drunk and exchange numbers and don't remember what they look like and then meet up with them a few days after it really helps.

I honestly don't even get nervous anymore when I go out with people, just remind yourself that you're a 'catch,' pick out a great outfit the night before, listen to some great music and have a glass of wine (if you're going for dinner) or tea (if you're going for coffee) while you're getting ready and you'll be set.

[prozac]

Originally Posted by Lush

I honestly don't even get nervous anymore when I go out with people, just remind yourself that you're a 'catch,' pick out a great outfit the night before, listen to some great music and have a glass of wine (if you're going for dinner) or tea (if you're going for coffee) while you're getting ready and you'll be set.

Listen to this lady!

[sNyx]

I think in a first date setup it's best to not have a direct face to face with the person until you feel its receptive to do so. I usually start with a short walk to gage the level of attraction between the two of us prior to settling somewhere which will heighten the sense of intimacy. If the connection is there (and yes, you can tell within a short time) it becomes easier to decide where to go, somewhere sitting close, somewhere sitting across or perhaps somewhere not directly facing.

[-evil-duerr-]

Originally Posted by prozac

^that's too bad.

I like the sense of tradition in the dating dance, and it doesn't have to formal and stuffy or boring, it can be really fun. :)

ha ha ya no doubt, one of these days old duerr will trade his worn-out bitter/jaded love pants for a clean pair of optimistic love pants.

All in due time though, right now I am rocking my martyr phase pretty hard right now.

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by My!es

I think in a first date setup it's best to not have a direct face to face with the person until you feel its receptive to do so. I usually start with a short walk to gage the level of attraction between the two of us prior to settling somewhere which will heighten the sense of intimacy. If the connection is there (and yes, you can tell within a short time) it becomes easier to decide where to go, somewhere sitting close, somewhere sitting across or perhaps somewhere not directly facing.

yeah and the best way to find out is see how they react when you sday 'yooo shortaayy imma smash that pussy like its baby asprin.'

im a genius.

in seriousness in summer time i like to go to the beach and grab some coffee or drinks and chill and watch the sunset, bitches(including myself) love that romantic shit, and then figure out what to do afterwards cuz theres tons of shit to do dtown.