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Oct 24, 01
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confused
i've been so out of it and confused lately. i don't know what it is. it's just that i can't decide on what i want or need to do. i don't know what school i'll be going to which i need to decide soon cuz it's my last year and all this crap. my family just doesn't seem the same.......like i feel that they aren't really trusting me or letting me do what i want to do. it seem likes i have no communication with them so somethings not right. and theres my friends that i have no clue whats happening cuz one day they seem all cool and we talk and laugh but then the next day it's like they dont even see me and i'm not there at all or i dont hear a call from them. and these are my closest friends and i dont wanna lose them............maybe i'm not confused......maybe my life is just screwed up and i don't know how to handle it????????
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Oct 24, 01
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1. u gotta chill
2. breath 3. think what profession u wanna take up 4. narrow down alll the possible skool that support the profession u want to go into 5. always have a plan B 6. if all esle fails go to douglas for like a year the try to transfer to the skool u want dont worry ainslie i was the same way at about this time and right now things are just dandy so be cool dunt worry apply to lots of skool oh apply for scholarships too u never know what u are gonna get that was my mistake then when u get letters back from the skools u can thorw out all the skool that didnt accept u and keep all the ones that did then u make the decision of which skool would fit for u believe me u sitll got lots of time ish all good aight? ~trevor
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Oct 24, 01
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Re: confused
i've been so out of it and confused lately. i don't know what it is.
you seemed to of narrowed it down pretty good in this post. it's just that i can't decide on what i want or need to do. i don't know what school i'll be going to which i need to decide soon no you dont. my family just doesn't seem the same.......like i feel that they aren't really trusting me or letting me do what i want to do. are you doing anything to make them not trust you? ie: you sneaking out to parties then coming home and having them ask you if you have been "raving it up" and you denying them and storming to your room in angry tears! OH GOD!! it seem likes i have no communication with them so somethings not right. you only have a year to go, after that you can leave and not worry about communication till you need to borrow money and theres my friends that i have no clue whats happening cuz one day they seem all cool and we talk and laugh they're faking it. but then the next day it's like they dont even see me and i'm not there at all or i dont hear a call from them. what jerks. like GOD -- NO CALL?? fuck them up the ass to hell. and these are my closest friends and i dont wanna lose them............ dont worry you will lose them 2, 3 months after graduation.. :) maybe i'm not confused......maybe my life is just screwed up and i don't know how to handle it???????? nope, its pretty much like every other teenagers life. ---------- drug and alcohol binges can provide you a temp. solution to your problem, then get off your complaining ass and get to work. OFF OF F&K WHEN YOU SHOULD BE DOING HW! Last edited by stabmyhead; Oct 24, 01 at 10:49 PM.
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Oct 24, 01
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its ok to be confused...
friends..well..they are always like that..one day close..one day as far as hell..but as long as u have that one day where u guys laugh and are close and stuff..it'll keep ya together for a while...ur all pretty busy..and i'm sure all of u don't wanna lose each other as friends..but yeah..maybe a girls nite out or sumthing could help... family..they never seem to understand..they always seem to set limits at the things u wanna do most..and communicating with them is usually as good as talking to a wall...but talking to a wall could be better cuz the wall doesn't say nething back..but since u say..there isn't any communication...go for it..go talk to them..don't wait for them to say sumthign first cuz that mite not happen for a while.. and about decisions for skool and wut u wanna be..i'm in the same boat as u..i can't decide..for skools..just apply everywhere...and as this last skool year ends..hopefully at least get an idea of wut u department u wanna be in and wut u don't wanna be in...like sciences..arts...figure out a department that u sorta like..thats sorta like narrowing it down..but not really..but sorta...and then i dunno..thats where i'm at now..hoping that i'll figure out wut i sorta wanna go in to or be...think of ur hobbies and wut u like to do...try asking people about their jobs..or when u go on work experience..pick sumthing u mite like..and see how its really like....don't feel as if u don't have any time to decide..u have a lot of time...don't stress over it yet...if u still don't know wut u wanna be by age 25..then start worrying... hope u figure stuff out and feel better...:384:
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Oct 25, 01
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that's what i'm doing right now......applyin for every school that i can think of
i figured out that my parents will be my parents and that's how they will be......nothing can really change that of them.....they bitch and yell and scream and that will probably never stop as for my friends......that's a whole different story.......i'm close to the people that i rarely talk to about my life and now i'm opening up to them........the ones that i always tell my life to them are the ones that don't listen and are stubborn to hear or even acknowledge that i'm right there beside them......it hurts.......this confusion in my life has turned into confusion about my friends and the question is "will i still talk to them in like a few months? or at the end of the year?" it's like i'm not even there anymore......
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Oct 25, 01
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Re: confused
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Oct 26, 01
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how can i talk to u guys when like one of you so doesn't say a word to me at all?!
what are you talkin about this burnin the candle??........ok i can't be friends with everyone? is that a crime?! yeah the bitch does say stuff about steph and i choose not to listen.....i don't laugh at it! and when steph says stuff i don't say ne thing either!! the best for me is to keep my mouth shut and not have anythin to do with her and the other gurl!! but ur sayin that i don't try to talk to u guys?! i have like no time to cuz u guys leave right away too late glenda.......i've already gotten burned by my OWN friends............ :(
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Oct 26, 01
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how can i talk to u guys when like one of you so doesn't say a word to me at all?! [/quote]
that is a bunch of crap!!!! Ainslie u know the way Kyoote babe is and u know the way i act... so how can u not fucking talk to me ..... if u want to bicth ... fucking say it to my face .... u picked the wrong to day to start shit like this ... i'm already mad and i don't need u saying this because u keep contradicting ur self ... i think that maybe u should look in the mirror and wonder what kind of friend u r !!!! what are you talkin about this burnin the candle??........ok i can't be friends with everyone? is that a crime?! yeah the bitch does say stuff about steph and i choose not to listen.....i don't laugh at it! and when steph says stuff i don't say ne thing either!! the best for me is to keep my mouth shut and not have anythin to do with her and the other gurl!! [/quote] U an idiot .... how can u say ur friends w/ *****and then call her a bitch ..... that doesn't work .... and if Kyoote babe is supposably u best friend why wouldn't u stand up for her .... u know she would stand up for in a second but ur sayin that i don't try to talk to u guys?! i have like no time to cuz u guys leave right away too late glenda.......i've already gotten burned by my OWN friends............ :( [/quote] I was talking to u today but of course i had to leave i have fucking class ..... Ainslie i'm not even involed in this, i just didn't want to see u and Kyoote babe end ur friendship because she is stubborn and u scared shitless if u step on anyone's toes when i say u can't burn the candle on both ends , i means that u can't play both side, it is impossible ..... it is the same as being two faced , u can't be nice to someone and then turn around and bitch about them ..... IT DOESN'T FUCKING WORK.
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Oct 27, 01
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*coughHolycough*
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Oct 30, 01
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about tiem fu came back made shiet better
OKIE let me have the attention of south afrikan girl, honger girl , and spic chick....
listen gurlz...i;ve known all three of u gurlz for three long fuckin years.........u gurls are ther efor one another thru thick and thin.....I have never seen u gurls like this b4....damn childrens... the aura around u gurls have always been so good....when i feel down i walk thru that logn hall way just to tlak to u three....maybe im always makin fun of u gurlz..but dan ahs bmad love and when shiet liek this happen..dan ahs to step in....check it....u gurls wanna ruin the best three years of ur lives meetin each other all becuz of this bullsheit miscommunication.....????i dont think so.......look anythign can be solved as long as u make a commitment to it....u hear/??? its all a big miscommunication... look steph u need to show urself and say sum stuff on here..if u feel u to stubborn to say stuff to ainslie .........say it on here....cuz u both need to tell each other how u feel..and what is worng.... SO FUCKIN DO IT>>>DONT MAKE ME COME BACK>>>CUZ WHEN I DO ITS GONNA BE FU"S WAY IN SOLVING THIS SHIET>>......so u gurls be nice ot each other..kay.....fu dont liek to see u gurls liek this..who is gonna cheer me up......b4 when i had to tlak to ppl i tlak to all three of u..now i have to find u gurls individually and tlka to u three...ai ya..fuck............ :snyx:
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Oct 31, 01
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*paging doctor Fu! paging Doctor Fu!* *your needed in the trauma ward*
too funny its all a fase i thing ainslie glendita and steph are going through dunt worry by the end of the week they be all cool
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Nov 02, 01
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hey dare.... u happy fu im showing my self..... and i hear whut ur saying but i dont need 2 write whut i think b/c that would take 4ever and its resolved already so yea thats that.... and fu a doctor?? maybe ur doctor trever but definitely not mine hehe lol
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