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88 | 65.67% |
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Aug 20, 04
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hahahahah ^... but seriously, if someone cheats on you, the best thing is to get them back and not let them know.. and just smicker about it whenever you remind urself they cheated on you... then if you ever need to break up wit them... just tell them.. it'll work nicely
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Aug 21, 04
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Aug 21, 04
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You just prooved you are no better than the person that cheated on you. Stupid slutty bitch.
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Aug 22, 04
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How are you getting back at them, if they don't even know about it???
I don't see getting back at someone as a good way of dealing with things. It makes you no better then the other person.
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Aug 22, 04
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cheating is wrong if u wanna do it at least break up with them first.. if u do cheat it always seems to come out some way or another.. either u blab it when ur drunk or a friend sees it and tells ur bf/gf..
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Aug 22, 04
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ya been cheated on 3 times ... twice of which was with my best friends in which arent that anymore .. its kind of a shitty feeling cuz now im not friends wit them anymore ... i think that if i was comfortable enough .. she coulda asked me to do a threesome atleast
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Aug 22, 04
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^^ hahah threesome.. ya tis sucks when people cheat u loose a friend, someone u care about
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Aug 23, 04
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i think that is true in some instances once a cheater always a cheater.. but people can change.. although it takes for them to hit rock bottom to realize the hurt they have caused!!!
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Aug 23, 04
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Sal it's not cool of you to get all defensive and side with her, how can you call a person a sweetheart after vaguely hanging out with them for what.. two weeks?! And you should really consider dropping the subject because she's the one being a shit disturber right now. We're the friends in the situation therefore we should be supportive, we're not in the position to believe rumours or make things more difficult for our friend. I realize you don't like him, you haven't exactly been discreet about it but if you have any respect, you'll just drop it and let it be because there isn't any validity to the rumours that are going around.
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Aug 23, 04
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The issue was supposed to be dropped months ago but it wasn't, so that's a lame excuse and I just think it's pretty ironic that it fits in so well to this current dilemma.
But whatever, you know best.. afterall it was your post, I can't read your mind. "especially when you meet her afterwards and she's a sweetheart" Ok, seriously.. how does that fit in?! You've been saying that she's a total sweetheart and she's an awesome person and all this other stuff in hopes to change our minds. Whatever, I'm not posting anymore in regards to this, I just really hope you're being honest with yourself.
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Aug 24, 04
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being cheated on really does suck, it always makes me feel bad about myself, wondering what i did to make him want someone else instead of me. but after a while i usually come to realize that it wasnt my fault, it was his fault and that i didnt make/ask/want/give hints ect to cheat on me. although it is really hard sometimes to get to that last point, hopfully and most likly it will come and i will move on.
another thing id just like to add from my personal opinion is when some people get cheated on they seem to always want to blam the other person not their bf/gf. this subject goes a couple ways i guess. i mean ya you wont always have a soft spot for that other person in your life but i dont think there is any need to be out of your way mean to that other person. but there is always the point that if they knew about your bf/gf going out with someone at the time, that leaves questioning about that person. but all in all remember, the other person didnt cheat on you, your bf/gf was the one doing the cheating and is to blam.
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Aug 24, 04
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Very true. It is your bf.gf fault when it comes to the cheating. But if someone is really persuing them while knowing they are dating you. Then they get a nice *PUNCH* too. :p
I had a girl that was chilling with my group of friends chase after a guy I was dating one summer. Making stories up, like she was sleeping at his house and hanging out with him when I wasnt around. It was all a bull shit story, and she only went after guys that had gf's because she liked the chase. But it was a fucking piss off, and made me really worry. I hate pathological liers. So people like that I think deserve some fat cock anal with no lube. lol But yes it should be the one you are dating that is to blame in those situations. They are the ones that are supposed to keep your trust. Not the other person. Although sometimes it's hard to not be as angry with them as well. Last edited by Kandyapple; Aug 24, 04 at 04:11 AM.
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Aug 24, 04
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Aug 29, 04
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Ive been cheated on, its the worst feeling. Not only do u feel completely disrespected...but u also lose alot of self confidence
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