so i was out with a bunch of coworkers..

[Jen-E-03]

So i went out tonite with a bunch of co-workers and everyone was having a great time. Then, out of nowhere, one of them started saying some really hurtful things about me. I was completely embaressed about what he said about me...he personallly attacked my appearance, right in front of people...THREE TIMES. I feel like shit now about what he said about me. for example, if you were upset maybe about your weight and someone pointed it out in front of a group of people, wouldn't u b upset? The things he said have nothig to do with my weight, but i woul;d really rather not say what they are, i just feel like shit, and I'm completely mortified at how anyone in their right mind could EVER say the things he said about me...I never said n e thing wrong about him...and even when he did say the things he said i tried to laugh it off...then went to the washroom to cry.

[wum]

he sounds like a douchebag.

i thought your pictures looked pretty good :)

[baby-phat]

What a jackass!! That is so not cool! :211:
*mentally kicks the jerk that made you cry*
My guess is, maybe he's so insecure he had to make himself better by putting someone else down.. possibilty?
*sends you snugglez* :D:

[Jen-E-03]

he;'s a 40something year old man and married at that....i dpont kno why he would have to put someone else down...i feel like throwing up

[baby-phat]

^^ you should throw up on his shoes! hehe
Well, that may be your answer.. he's 40 and perhaps not happy with his life. But still that's no excuse to be so rude and hurtful to a coworker.

[wum]

maybe it's a cultural thing... i had an asian lady boss once, and she was extremely blunt with things telling employees to wear less makeup, lose weight, get a haircut, etc.

[Jen-E-03]

he was an a white guy, an aussie ^

[Jen-E-03]

he was an a white guy, an aussie ^...and the things he said about me weirent thing u can fix with soap n water or a diet.

[impure]

what an ass.
he was probably just jelous because he was old and married so he couldn't hit on you.
since when does the opinon of some joe shmuck 40 yr old man matter anyway?
next time he says something just call his bluff by saying "you're just pissed off because you can't have me"

[PwInCeSs]

awwwe hun
ive been there befor, and it sucks!!
but remember your great! and im not just saying that! you were always on msn when i needed to shit chat and sometimes still on, im barely online!
I MISS YOU!
SMILE JEN! IT LOOKS GOOD ON YOU! :)

[Oscar Da Grouc]

he's prolly just upset that you're goodlooking, and he wants to stick it to u

[vesperstina]

what a jerk! we all know hurtful things should really be kept private, and behind closed doors. you should confront him face to face and tell him about your feelings on whatever made you insecure and maybe he will apologize

[Custard]

Originally Posted by Jen-E-03

...then went to the washroom to cry.

bahahhahahahha

[Gusto]

i could be wrong here, but i thought you were totally hot? this guy sounds really insecure. that or he's just an asshole. or both. forget him.

[Kelster]

^ yea i'd confront him. it's unbelievably embarassing to be called on for sticking your foot in your mouth...especially when the person does it in a mature serious manner. make him feel like shit, just don't cry in front of him.

we all have our flaws, most of them permanent things we cant' change no matter what you do. learn to live with it, meaning you shouldn't let people get to you when they decide to rub it in your face, which is going to happen every now and then.

[J o e l]

NOT FUNNY!!!^^^^aaawww jen, I feel bad. Don't let this guy get you down on yourself, your probably way better looking (and obviously a better person) than this fuck face.

[tvmann]

Just dump a pitcher of ice water on him next time!

[Séguin]

I put up with that kind of ridicule for 4 years of high school.

For some, it's easier said than done, but you really shouldn't give a shit about what others think.

[axion]

Originally Posted by Jen-E-03

So i went out tonite with a bunch of co-workers and everyone was having a great time. Then, out of nowhere, one of them started saying some really hurtful things about me. I was completely embaressed about what he said about me...he personallly attacked my appearance, right in front of people...THREE TIMES. I feel like shit now about what he said about me. for example, if you were upset maybe about your weight and someone pointed it out in front of a group of people, wouldn't u b upset? The things he said have nothig to do with my weight, but i woul;d really rather not say what they are, i just feel like shit, and I'm completely mortified at how anyone in their right mind could EVER say the things he said about me...I never said n e thing wrong about him...and even when he did say the things he said i tried to laugh it off...then went to the washroom to cry.

fuck him. he probably hasnt been laid in 10 years, i bet he is just hurtin for some tang.

[mapleleaf4ever]

^ Most likely the correct explanation. :)

[*Kane]

i fuckin hate assholes like this, if i was there i woulda bitch slapped him and degraded him in front of all his freinds, but i guess i would be just as bad as him then.You sound like an awsome person anyway so dont listen to that dick, maybe you should pull him a side one day and tell him that that really hurt your feelings, if he has any heart at all hell realise that he was an asshole and he'll apoligize to you, if not than thats just how some people are anyways, and im a strong believer in "what goes around comes around" so he'll get his. keep your head up :335:

[neoh]

put a lighter in your fist and break his nose.


next time, next time...

[Séguin]

Originally Posted by axion

fuck him. he probably hasnt been laid in 10 years, i bet he is just hurtin for some tang.

Highly likely.

[tahiti__treat]

aww jen ur gorgeus and like most of the other ppl said he's probably misserable with his life and very insecure
LOVE YOU!!! *HUGZ*

[Anjew]

you should al lget together and since you're leaving slap him aroudn as much as you can.
be sure to put in some backhands for me!