Fuck relationships, Money comes first in this life.

[mojo]

its too bad your feeling this way right now, but i agree with some of them up there^. i bet you thought differently when your relationship was bright and happy.

ill take rich with love anyday.

[TrixX]

i don't care what anyone says......the only person you can count on 100% is yourself. i wouldn't say fuck relationships........but they ARE extremely over-rated. i know TONS of couples that go through so much shit.........


a relationship is always gonna be trying and hard at times but the majority of it is for comfort and support. you shouldn't be jealous or worried about your boy/girlfriend cheating..........if there isn't trust.......there isn't anything(except maybe sex :)). some people really need to re-think who they are with.

and money makes the world go round...........i love it!

*edit* and snyx......you so smart :)

[wishbone]

TrixX summarized a lot of important things there.

[project.one]

^ Agreed!

[~god~]

whoever said money does not bring happiness must not have had a lot of money.

[decypher]

Wayne you need to change your mindset like i was saying last night.
Instead of viewing your new aspirations of wanting money as being your only route in life, you should take a different stance. You should focus on self-improvement and bettering your life through accomplisment. View money as a means not an end.

Sure money is good because it can make your love ones comfortable and give you possessions. But in the end if your only focus is money then the personal relationships around you will suffer. If money is your soul purpose in life it'll ruin you man. You need balance.

You can't facilitate your love for people around you with money. It's like a bandaid that makes problems go away for awhile but under the surface the true emotional problems are festering and going unnoticed. Believe me what i say buddy.

Money is nothing without that passion for life and ambition to succeed.

[sNyx]

Originally Posted by projectone

What do you expect from someone who calls himself 2PAC and MOB or whatever and posts on a rave related forum ???

What the hell are you talking about. I'm going to interpret that gibberish as best I can, I think everyone here is old enough to differ between song lyrics and personal verbal cursing. That specific 'Tupac Shakur' song was within topic and made sense, perhaps you need to pick your fights better noob.

[maztraz]

''Love is the Cake, Money is just the plate''

[G3N3R4L]

"99 problems but a b*tch ain't one. hit meh" - JayZ


Money isn't happiness, but it sure as hell makes me feel better when I don't have to work like a dog to scrape by.

Damn I want money.

[thechix0r]

Originally Posted by decypher

Wayne you need to change your mindset like i was saying last night.
Instead of viewing your new aspirations of wanting money as being your only route in life, you should take a different stance. You should focus on self-improvement and bettering your life through accomplisment. View money as a means not an end.

Sure money is good because it can make your love ones comfortable and give you possessions. But in the end if your only focus is money then the personal relationships around you will suffer. If money is your soul purpose in life it'll ruin you man. You need balance.

You can't facilitate your love for people around you with money. It's like a bandaid that makes problems go away for awhile but under the surface the true emotional problems are festering and going unnoticed. Believe me what i say buddy.

Money is nothing without that passion for life and ambition to succeed.

Well said, I must say.

Money is a nice thing to have, and in the end it does help with the many burdens of life, but it does not possess the power of true friendship, or like decypher said, self-improvement or accomplishing things in life that mean something to you (other than obtaining money of course). Instead of just focusing on money, try and kick start a passion you have (something you like doing or whatever, again bettering yourself a person).

Of course Trixx does make a good point about the fact that you have only you and yourself to rely on, but money on a whole doesn't actually make you happy, only you can make yourself happy, that's the bottom line. Be comfortable with who you are, the rest will fall in line.

[Asheai]

Originally Posted by sNyx™

What the hell are you talking about. I'm going to interpret that gibberish as best I can, I think everyone here is old enough to differ between song lyrics and personal verbal cursing. That specific 'Tupac Shakur' song was within topic and made sense, perhaps you need to pick your fights better noob.

lol, i think he meant that you were quoting another member here who was swearing a lot... not quoting song lyrics... but thats just my interpretation of that :P

[decypher]

Originally Posted by thechix0r

Of course Trixx does make a good point about the fact that you have only you and yourself to rely on, but money on a whole doesn't actually make you happy, only you can make yourself happy, that's the bottom line. Be comfortable with who you are, the rest will fall in line.

Yes, the thing about that is if you prop yourself up with things to make you happy i.e, a significant other, money, food, drugs, etc etc. Whatever it is that you use to fill the void is not really helping you.

Once you find yourself in a posistion in life where these things are absent you feel like your nothing without them. By filling this void with something else like becoming an alcoholic when not having a girlfriend, all you do is prolong this unhealthy lifestyle.

Getting out of a long term relationship should be a learning experience to become more independant so that when you get in another relationship, not only are you content with who you are, but you can do the next relationship right.

[SEAN!]

youre an idiot, developing and maintaining a successfull relationship is probably the hardest and most emotionally draining parts of life.

money comes easier then serious and successful interpersonal relationships.

look at the billionaires and business leaders who have gone through multiple marriages. Take alook at the divorce rates in north america.

careerism is fine in itself but to be that one dimensional is pathetic, and this is coming form the most greedy and ambitious person you'll never meet.

[LeeBrat]

i have to agree with you....and life is simplified and easier when your single and dont have to worry about relationships. not to mention the aboundance of freedom you posess :)

[fable]

Originally Posted by SEAN!

youre an idiot, developing and maintaining a successfull relationship is probably the hardest and most emotionally draining parts of life.

money comes easier then serious and successful interpersonal relationships.

look at the billionaires and business leaders who have gone through multiple marriages. Take alook at the divorce rates in north america.

careerism is fine in itself but to be that one dimensional is pathetic, and this is coming form the most greedy and ambitious person you'll never meet.

quick, EXCORCISM STAT!!!

[Grapes]

money comes easier then serious and successful interpersonal relationships.

look at the billionaires and business leaders who have gone through multiple marriages.

Uhh.. look at the countless loving families struggling to scrape by on low paying jobs.

[Vitamin-X]

Originally Posted by Chewy

does your money hug you good night..

haha maybe not, but If I had enough money I'd hug it good night.

On a serious note though I knew a married couple who had been married for oh about six years. As soon as money problems appeared all of a sudden he was a jerk and she wanted a divorce.

So I guess all I'm saying is pick your partner carefully or when something goes wrong you might all of a sudden become a jerk too.

-so many flakes out there-

[ebbomega]

money can buy you a sound system, but it can't buy you a party.

just because money is central to life doesn't mean it's the most important part.

when i skipped out of a two-and-a-half-year, i found focusing on friends to be a great asset.

but i guess if money is what you want to focus on in this part of your life where you finally get a chance to grow and develop yourself, power to you, i guess. hope you're happy.

[tiedye]

haha, there's something horrible about your thread sir.. and quite frankly, I like it! Flow is an important thing to have.

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by SEAN!

youre an idiot,

still not getting old.

[Toxxin Ephekt]

I know, I am using the motivation to make money as a band-aid and hey...it's working, I just ain't gonna dwelll and sulk about something that cant come later in life.....Finances and a Carreer should come first.... and plus there's a difference if you have or dont have paper, in the business world you need money to make money, and fourtunately I'm only 24 with nearly a 6 figure bank, and I need to start making some profitable investments before the market gets even higher, In this world the Rich are gonna get Richer and the Poor are gonna get poorer ( plus now that Steven Harper fuck nut ),

It takes money to make money, and money dont make itself.

[Toxxin Ephekt]

Originally Posted by fable

hmmmm, tox, it sounds like your coming from a place of some serious rage, and hurt. If this is whats going to get you though it, and its not at the cost of someone elses wellbeing, then, i say, fuck it, make that money. But i dont really believe that youll be able to chase this course very long, because i got a mix of yours currently on my hardrive, that convinced me, shit man, this bro got some soul, and skillz (your words at times also prove this) So anyways, do what you gots to do to stay up(keep in mind its really hard to do this, and no shit on someone else - but doable) Its a process, and i garantee youll find yourself down the road, understanding the true nature of your current comments. Anger is a good thing sometimes - a survival trait, but this can only be the case of it makes a man, or women return the focus to whats inside of them, and what the score really is.

Regret is the bitch of all bitches, so be sure to try to check in with yourself every, so often, but with great pain, comes great realization, and great realization can bring great joys in their own right.

Good luck bro, and i hope, theres a day, when your current hurt, is nothing but a dull ache, that reminds you of mistakes and triumphs.

ez

Thanks dude.

[Toxxin Ephekt]

Gold digging isn't the beef here ( with my "GF"), she's never loved me for my paper, cuz I was broke when she first met me....I just cant handle the childish games and stagnant progression in the relationship.....for fuck sakes, I'm 24! I need to get a move on before the sands of time pour down the drain....

[decypher]

If you got a 6 figure bank account what you doing on fnk wayne! Invest that shit and move to hawaii.

[decypher]

Originally Posted by Toxxin Ephekt

It takes money to make money, and money dont make itself.

But if it takes money to make money then wouldn't that therefore mean that money does make itself? ;)