Being hurt - Page 2

bob · #26 (**permalink**) Aug 06, 02

FUCK!

Bitchin · #27 (**permalink**) Aug 06, 02

Glenda, I think either way I'm gonna get bitten in the ass..its a no win win situation!

Leslie... I dont think its me making the pain out to be that way, cause its the same thing happening over and over again.. just with diffrent people. I've tried to avoid thei 'routine' but I just cant its like its follwing and I some how back up into it each time!grrr

yoko* · #28 (**permalink**) Aug 06, 02

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Originally posted by stabmyhead:
Yoko, what if you never learned how to swim? You can't really dive into a pool if you're just going to drown...

if u start drowning u just sorta flail around and hope some one saves you ;) and there's always mouth-to-mouth.

yoko* · #29 (**permalink**) Aug 06, 02

^just before this gets a little too in depth and confusing and we start talking about floatation devices as well as cpr, "diving into a pool" was just an analogy

hehe. stop making me think i'm supposed to be sun-fried brain dead.

Guice_39 · #30 (**permalink**) Aug 06, 02

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Originally posted by ~* tinker *bell*~:
hey j'nette ... i totally know where u coming from i have been hurt so many times ... i have put up the huges walls ... but i'm telling u it isn't worthe it . Give yourself some times ... and don't put up those walls because i'm telling u it is just going to bite u in the ass ... it just happened to me

Yeah she's got a point, puttin up walls just keeps you from tryin again and not tryin again means you'll never find what you've been looking for. But then I guesse it also depends on the strength of a person's character cause some people can brush it off like nothin but others can't handle the pain. After a person is hurt for tha first time, there view on relationships or love is not tha same.

Bitchin · #31 (**permalink**) Aug 06, 02

^^I've been hurt well over 5 times...

Glendita* · #32 (**permalink**) Aug 06, 02

^^^
hun give yourself some time ... and whatever u do don't rush into a relationship .... u know what don't even have any quick fucks,flings,or make out session ... it isn't worthe it ...

*hugs* ... but u can't shut out stupid smelly guys either ... because when that one comes along that blows u away ... u will let all the hurt from the past get in the way ... and that hurt is just the same

Blah ... i need to go to sleep ... to much thinking is bad

bebu*funfun · #33 (**permalink**) Aug 07, 02

glenda u rock... i really needed to read that from someone. i need to stop fucking up relationships and hurting myself...CUZ I BRING IT ALL ON MYSELF. its not worth itttttt..... fawk myself.

Glendita* · #34 (**permalink**) Aug 07, 02

Bev i'm glad that i could help u

i just wish i could take my own advice ... mmm i hope it isn't to late for myself *shakes head*

bebu*funfun · #35 (**permalink**) Aug 07, 02

aaahh i dont htink its ever too late.. wait..im thinkin about myself rite now..im confused.. everything could be fixed thats wut i think. i think i got myself into something i dont wanna let go but i screwed up... okay TOO MUCH THINKING..need sleep.

Glendita* · #36 (**permalink**) Aug 07, 02

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Originally posted by BeBu*FunFun:
okay TOO MUCH THINKING..need sleep.

heehee my words exactly ....

bebu*funfun · #37 (**permalink**) Aug 07, 02

whao i stayed up for 5 more minutes and everything's fixed and i have mad butterflies in my tummy now...fawk..now i can't sleep

Guice_39 · #38 (**permalink**) Aug 07, 02

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Originally posted by Bitchin:
^^I've been hurt well over 5 times...

I've been hurt too, and I don't really know what to say except for eveyone feels different and only they know how they are feeling no matter how much advice people give em. Ever since that time I havent really been rushing in to things with any kinda relationship, I just take things as they come along. But its not always good to do that cause you can't expect all good things to just come to you, but everyone has different opinions, do what you feel is right and best for you.

Bitchin · #39 (**permalink**) Aug 07, 02

Thanx for the advice glenda.. it made me really think about a few things... ugh... I think its gonna help me not do something before I regret it!r something along those lines...

I think I'm in need of something solid, but not at the moment!

Guice, yeha.. being hurt is the pits... but when its been repeated many times and in basically the same manner.. it hurts more!

I guess its that whole 'not good enough' factor! >:|

Guice_39 · #40 (**permalink**) Aug 07, 02

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Originally posted by Bitchin:
Thanx for the advice glenda.. it made me really think about a few things... ugh... I think its gonna help me not do something before I regret it!r something along those lines...

I think I'm in need of something solid, but not at the moment!

Guice, yeha.. being hurt is the pits... but when its been repeated many times and in basically the same manner.. it hurts more!

I guess its that whole 'not good enough' factor! >:|

Yeah you just got bad luck. But the worst thing you could do is give up all hope that eventually something right will come.

Bitchin · #41 (**permalink**) Aug 08, 02

yeah thats sorta what happen lasttime... and something came...then got fucked over AGAIN...

its geigh.. :'(

but mer. I tyhink I can get on with cause atleast I know, I dont for sure need relationship at the moment :) meh

Guice_39 · #42 (**permalink**) Aug 08, 02

Yeah not wanting one helps not to think about past relationships.....big time.

Bitchin · #43 (**permalink**) Aug 12, 02

/me has been thinkin a lot

so yeah... I know I can find another boy and shit... but I still want theold one back...

damn thinkin..

TIME

Guice_39 · #44 (**permalink**) Aug 12, 02

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Originally posted by Bitchin:
/me has been thinkin a lot

so yeah... I know I can find another boy and shit... but I still want theold one back...

damn thinkin..

TIME

TIME is what it takes......thats what helped me get over this one chick....well...and a bit of smokin weed too but TIME is the primary factor.

Bitchin · #45 (**permalink**) Aug 12, 02

WERD

but why does it have to take soo fucking long!!

diva · #46 (**permalink**) Aug 13, 02

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Originally posted by stabmyhead:
Pain is food, it keeps us alive. Think about it, if you didn't experience pain, how would you know what happiness is? And I'm not talking about the kind you get off your dealer.

PAIN!! MORE PAIN! HARDER! OH YEAH.

/me ejaculates all over her keyboard

I think Leslie's a genius; who else agrees?

Guice_39 · #47 (**permalink**) Aug 13, 02

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Originally posted by Bitchin:
WERD

but why does it have to take soo fucking long!!

The less you are with that person, the less you think of them as each day goes by. Which is obviously why the first little bit is hard but eventually is gets less and less hard until they become any other regular person to you.

Bitchin · #48 (**permalink**) Aug 13, 02

merr... I dont think I can fully stop thinkin about -that- person... heh.. but I can move on :)

Guice_39 · #49 (**permalink**) Aug 13, 02

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Originally posted by Bitchin:
merr... I dont think I can fully stop thinkin about -that- person... heh.. but I can move on :)

No you'll never be able to stop thinking about them whether its a lot or a little, there will alwayz be somethin small inside of you about that person. And everytime you see them its like "oh theres *name*" and shit like that. But what pisses me off is when that fucken person flirts with you so bad. When they know how much you wanted them back then, and they wanna still be your best friend after all thses years of very very little talking (like once every 2-3 months).......agggghhh!!! Fucken girls!!!! I still have somethin small for her and alwayz will but my feelings have droped hardcore. I don't alwayz think about her, I don't stress about her and I don't hate the fact that I can't have her anymore. Just give it time somethin will eventually come along...whether their the right one or not.....you gotta take your chances.....thats how you'll find tha right one in tha first place. Thats how I look at things.

Bitchin · #50 (**permalink**) Aug 13, 02

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Originally posted by Guice_39:

No you'll never be able to stop thinking about them whether its a lot or a little, there will alwayz be somethin small inside of you about that person. And everytime you see them its like "oh theres *name*" and shit like that.

yeah, it like that one person that you miss meing with and the more you think about it the more you appreciatethem.. and all that shit.. like in MC hammered other thread!

[/quote] But what pisses me off is when that fucken person flirts with you so bad. When they know how much you wanted them back then, and they wanna still be your best friend after all thses years of very very little talking (like once every 2-3 months).......agggghhh!!! Fucken girls!!!![/quote]

DUDE, I soooooooooooo know what you mean!!!omg!!thats like how it is for me pretty much and they know pretty much everything and tease yeah.. GRRRrrrr and you cant have em' back!!SOOOOOO GEIGH!!!!oh whats worse is that they have a gf... grrr... and yeha... so its just a definate answer that you cant have em' back!!!LAME!

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I still have somethin small for her and alwayz will but my feelings have droped hardcore. I don't alwayz think about her, I don't stress about her and I don't hate the fact that I can't have her anymore. Just give it time somethin will eventually come along...whether their the right one or not.....you gotta take your chances.....thats how you'll find tha right one in tha first place. Thats how I look at things.

Well I sorta am the same as ya but my feelings havent droped.. they will always be there... but I will just have to move on. I dont hate the fact that Ic ant have him back I dislike the fact that I cant but I can live with it!but yeah... its just about experiementing with others.. I guess thats what you can call it.. heh... ug... its gonna take awhile :\