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Jan 30, 03
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hmm.. what I've learnt.. shit tons..
1) don't sleep with a girl unless you love her.. 2) down to earth girl's are way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way better to be in a relationship with.. OMG I love these women :) 3) make sure you have a good line of communication and trust with a person before you get to far into things, otherwise it really really hurts.. 4) sometimes you just gotta let the girl pay for something if they really want to..(I never knew saying no, no I'll pay can cause such a big fight).. 5) Don't assume all friends are just FRIENDS.. 6) Don't expect so much from someone else. 
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Jan 30, 03
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2) agreed. should be obvious tho! 4) haha i think i'll learn from u on this 5) SO FUCKING TRUE OMFGS!!!!!!! FUCK FRIENDS SO CALLED FRIENDS! 6) seems that u can't expect anything from ANYONE these days. doesn't matter friends, best friends, gf/bf, parents, relatives it's all a damn trick! it's things like 5+6+work/school that makes death worth dying for
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Jan 30, 03
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Feb 01, 03
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That relationships unless the `open/casual` kind arent worth my time.
Too much drama, stress, mess, ect. Ive learned that I would rather not have a boyfriend (for too many reasons to list) or commitment. I love my freedom! Sure it would be nice sometimes to have someones arms to fall into on cloudy days when I need a shoulder, or someone to make me smile...but thats what friends are for!!! at this piont in life Im not tame enough to be tied down. Just not ready for having a boyfiend again...... unless by some miracle I found a guy who thinks like me and is down with the (very) casual non-commiting style relationship thing. but, like that would happen =( nah for real tho, Im a happy bachelorette!
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Feb 01, 03
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God my luck with relationships has been terrible.....I don't know if it's my fault or not....I try to be a good girlfriend I really do....but it just seems that weither I try or not the guy dumps me......In all my years I have only broken up with 2 guys....maybe that should tell me something....But I'm not gonna change who I am.....I think I'm a good persone and evetually I;ll meet Mr right!!! (I hope) But I have learned to give a guy his space, and that you can't change a persone.
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Feb 03, 03
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^funneh.. cause its seems like..
nice guys finish last. bitchy girls finish last. Hmmmmm...? Quote:
But also.. if all men/boys/guys fail me.. Jenna and I are gonna go out.
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Feb 03, 03
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Bev, she is a very cool person I won't deny that, I just don't think we started off to well... had sex way, way to fast.. hehe.. I don't mind that she was a nympho, kind of attractive actually, I just felt like shit sleeping with her after spending my entire life trying to save it for Marriage/Love..
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Feb 03, 03
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Ive learned that to expect the unexpected...u think things that u c on tv and read in bookz wunt happen lol
like...u think ur gurl wouldnt cheat on u...esp with ur friend hahaha...but yah..dunt turn ur bak on em...keep an eye out for ur gurl :P
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Feb 26, 03
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its not on what u learned , its what u experieced . Everyone u go out with is different, it should be love that bonds both of the people and it shouldn't matter what faults u had in tha pass unless u break tha rules . like cheat or pics fights it u are truly in love , u won't have to worry bout being a horrible person . theres always a person u can be with and sumone u can relate to . that stuff is in the past , whats done is done , what u do now is what counts for tha future. that is tha only thing that'll break the pattern. hit me back payce
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Mar 01, 03
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you can pretend that he doesn't treat you like an asshole would, until you actually see that he'll always be an asshole. and then you just don't want to be treated like that.
but seriously, there isn't one thing i learned that was most important. i learned from all my past relationships. what i learned? from each person i learned the type of person i can and cannot be with. i learned that you shouldn't have to change yourself to fit into what your partner wants (it just leads you to want to be yourself again, and after you've "changed" it's conflicting going back). you have to be you and be confident in you to find someone that will accept and luv you for who YOU are. there's more. but that's probably the most significant.
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Mar 01, 03
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every relationship is completely different, and from each relationship i learn something new about myself, relationships, and communication, and love.
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