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Mar 13, 03
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chiks & guys are people..... you can't say more guys are wrong or more girls are wrong.... so yeah... it's good u took it back hAHhaHAHhaHAHha ;) 
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Mar 14, 03
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life sucks, if you end it maybe you can protect some dolphins while you're going out by tying yourself to a tuna fishing ship or something, you know, to raise awareness.
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Mar 14, 03
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buddy, i can GARUNTEE you that everyone has felt the same way as you have... it's not un common
pull up your freakin pants and get your shit together...stop dwelling on the had-been's and figure out why your feeling this way you should never ever depend on someone else as your source for happiness cause 99% of the time you will be breaking up with them. DEPEND ON YOURSELF before you go running head-first into love, you have to figure yourself out and as corny as it sounds you have to love yourself. you have to be stable before you bring someone else into your life, otherwise you'll be sharing your unhappiness with them and you know what, as much as they might want to be there for you to help you out... it does get a little old, people can only give out so much advice and support before they get so frustrated with you cause your not doing about it but moping around and feeling sorry for yourself. Life is what you make of it, so make it good. Don't just think about doing stuff, and changing your life actually DO IT. I've been trying to get my shit together for the past 6 months or so and life is getting better and better. You get what you put out..if you put out nothing, then you'll get nothing. I'm sure you know all of this already... i did too, but i still never did anything about it. Another thing i never realized is how selfish suicide is, i was appalled when someone told me that they don't feel sorry for anyone who kills themselves... they hold absolutely no respect for them at all...i argued with him saying "you don't know what their lives were like, youdon't know what they've been through, who are you to judge them?" and after awhile i understood and agreed with him. If you want sympathy, if you want people to feel sorry for you, if you want attention and to make a big impact on people for fucks sakes killing yourself is the lamest way to do it! It's the easiest way out (on yourself..not your friends&family) Be a man and take on the challenge of Life. It's tough, but there are so many good things out there for you. Don't ask "like what?" and start thinking down about yourself. You have to make the effort to go out and find it (it won't come and find you if your chillin on the couch thinking about it) This life was given to you. it was a gift and because you feel you've been delt a crappy hand, you think that it gives you the power to throw it back in our faces. What i'm saying might be kinda blunt, but it's not a topic to 'walk on eggs shells' around. AND Don't go blaming your ex-girlfriend on your decision to kill yourslef!! like holy fuck, do you think guillting her back into the relationship is going to make you feel better?? Hello! is she not allowed to be her own person and make any decisions here without you threateninng to kill yourself? So what, she doesn't want to be with you anymore, if it was meant to happen then it will happen...maybe not right away, maybe not for another 10 years! just chill out, go on with your life. i'm sure your heart-broken, and you will be for a while, and most likely it will happen more then once in your life. you'll ru into other girls. but threatening her that your going to kill yourself cause you guys aren't together anymore what are you thinking?? think of how she feels? she's probably freaking out because she feels one way, but you are putting your life in her hands, so even if she does talk to you it's because your forcing her too..not cause she wants to... you can't do that to someone!! ..your not making the situation any easier on either of you (i've actually been in her situation so i know) and by doing this your cutting off any chance you might have with getting back together with her. i don't know what else to say... i suppose i've said more then enough already considering i don't even know you i never meant to be mean with any of this... I wish and hope for the absolute best! i just want to get all of this across to you
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Mar 14, 03
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Ok. Your problem is perspective. You see things worse then they actually are.
For instance...how many girls are in the lower mainland within your age group? 250 thousand? now how many out of that number do you think you'd have a chance with? Dont you think that there are at least a few girls out there who would be great for you? its statistics bud... take care
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Mar 14, 03
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my mommy used to always tell me this, and its very true...
You have to love urself b4 u have the ability to love n e one else. If u cant or dont know how to love urself then u dont know how to love n e one else, and how can u ever expect someone to love u in return if u dont love urself. does that makes sence, my mom used to say it way better, but i think u can get the idea. Only u can make u happy, so get up and do it.
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Mar 14, 03
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"you may be only one person in the world...but to one person you might BE the world."
you will find another person - and you will be thier world. trust me - i been where you are and it sucks. if its that bad - there are places that can help you. it does get better - you jsut have to realize that you are important and get rid of the tunnel vision. good luck bren
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Mar 14, 03
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I actualy took inconcideration of breaking with an old bf because he had such a low self a steam. He claimed he loved me, but then I told him exactly that... turns out in the end he cheeted on me. well life moves on and we learn and grow PS:C_men, Personaly I wouldnt want to be with someone if they didnt want to be with me. Wheres the love if u force it on them or threatin them? Last edited by Ree Fresh; Mar 14, 03 at 10:04 PM.
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Mar 16, 03
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ouch this hurt to read, it probably hurts about 100x more to feel that, and to write it out that's just too much.
seek a rent-a-friend, not a message board. the synthetic or sympathetic won't replace or make you realise unless you're that vicarious lightening rod that the electroids hit by fluke.
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Mar 20, 03
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