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Mar 10, 03
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Has nebody felt soo hurt ...........
well i've been hurt with jus life and relationships . i've gone over tha edge and i wanna die . i kno its wrong but sumtimes it feels like i have to wake sum people up and tell them i'm serious. i may sound crazy but sum people jus don't understand . i only have 6 more days .the only person that can stop me is my ex gf and she won't talk to me . well jus need to get this shit outta my head but i think its too late i'm 100% sure of it. i wish she would've listened to me.fuk man!
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just open your eyes and take a look around you at the people that DO care about you: your friends, and especially your family. I understand you're going through a lot of pain right now. having a broken heart is nothing spectacular i know that, but you just have to get through it. you're not alone, there are many many people that go through this same thing. just talk to someone about it and as soon as you hear that "i understand exactly what you're going through" sentence, you won't feel so alone and isolated.
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who hasnt been hurt with life and relationships? who hasnt gone over the edge? why take your own life? why as miska said...why be so selfish? do u understand who you're hurting when you take your own life? and its the pussy way out. It makes you more of a human being if you stick through everything that is hard and come out the other side smiling. dont expect someone who broke your heart to help you out of your bad times. that person is out of your life for a reason, sure they may have loved you, and you still love them...but things happen for a reason, you're not togther anymore, and it really is NOT fair to expect one person to help you. you have to help yourself. you have to beleive that there are better things, that things will work out... that everything will be fine. no you dont have to just beleive that....you actually have to put some work into being happy. dont expect everything to come to you on a silver plate...you have to go out there and find your happiness and do stuff that makes you want to live. so you're not in a relationship anymore? you will be again someday. it's not like you're never going to fall in love again, its not like you're going to be alone forever...unless you chose to have the mindset you have now... but why bother? dont u want to be happy? make the changes necessary to be. get a new job, or go to school, or hang out with a different crowd...do new things...etc etc. you think its too late? its not too late. there are other people that will listen. if you're ex doesnt want to...why would you even want to talk to her? and you only have 6 more days? why 6 more days? if you were serious about this....you wouldnt be here right now, you wouldnt have written this post you need someone to talk to, you need to snap outta this and get some help. im not being facecious or mean or anything, im being dead serious.
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people dont see the real me right
they just see my acne problem.. john 2899131
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EXACTLY !!!! no kiddin ! as for C_Men's prob... #1 dude i know what you mean #2 i've felt the same way and i've felt like killing myself before because my ex broke up with me. ! I've ALMOST done it too... till i realized in my head that that if i did kill myself i would just make more people feel bad...... which is selfish..... of myself #3. fuck the bitch ! trust me thats what i kept sayin to myself even though i didn't mean it it helped me !! FUCK THE DUMB CUNT !!! GIRLS ARE ALL HOES !!! MY EX IS A HOE !!! thats how i've felt for 4 fucken years ! and i still will continue to feel that way. #4. your not crazy ....... ! YOUR HUMAN !! CONGRADULATIONS YOU NOW FELT LOVE ! and you've felt hurt !! #5 Life = DO WHAT THE FUCK YOU WANT !!!! live by this modo that i've been living with " IF YOU CAN'T TAKE ME THEN FUCK OFF " never chill or hang around with anyone who doesn't accept you !!! #6 NEVER PUT THE THREAT TO YOUR EX to say " if you won't talk to me than i'm gonna kill myself " she will just hate you more in the end ! and finally trust me there are plenty of more girls in the see... it's been 4 years and i still haven't forgotten what happened with me and my ex ! and i never will ! i can only learn !! i've been in MANY OTHER RELATIONSHIPS and i still haven't felt the same way i've felt with my ex........ but taht shouldn't matter cause feeling diffrent with other girls is what its all about and finding your happiness !!!! I'm stil having problems finding the right person and i always will !!! REMEMBER !!! if you ever need anyone to talk to DO NOT TALK TO YOUR EX ! talk to your friend or talk to me ! peace n good luck !! TIM DA REEZ
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Mar 11, 03
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well i've been hurt with jus life and relationships . i've gone over tha edge and i wanna die . i kno its wrong but sumtimes it feels like i have to wake sum people up and tell them i'm serious. i may sound crazy but sum people jus don't understand .
Me too, wow! You have something in common with the rest of the world. Crazy isn't it? Of course that doesn't mean a thing, those bastards couldn't understand.... i only have 6 more days .the only person that can stop me is my ex gf and she won't talk to me . well jus need to get this shit outta my head but i think its too late i'm 100% sure of it. i wish she would've listened to me.fuk man! You want to know what you're ex girlfriend is probably hearing? "TAKE ME BACK AND LOVE ME OR ELSE I'LL KILL MYSELF!! I AM AN OBSESSIVE EX BF, DOESN'T THAT SOUND FAVORABLE?? DON'T YOU WANT ME BACK NOW?!!?" Give her a fucken' break buddy, did you not even read the replies to your other thread? It's quite aparent that it's time to move on. Just because you can't get the attention of someone you "love", isn't something to get suicidal and psychotic about. Take a fucken' chill pill and sit down. i've been feeling shitty all my life and it seems like i tried over and over and when i found happiness , it jus ran away frum me like it repels off of me but why ? i'm almost 21 and i still feel like shit I'd hate to break this to you, or shatter your little world, but THAT'S LIFE. Unplesant isn't it? Everyone goes through shit ass time, you're naive, arrogant and stupid if you believe you are the only one suffering. BOOHOO, a fucken' girl broke my heart, it is the fucken' end of the world, I'd hate to tell you this, but there are people suffering much worse -- suck it up princess. but its not all about a gurl its about my well being also. so i dunno what to do but i also know that i'll leave a lot of people behind but tell me this. why do people not care until its too late? thats one question thats been racking in my mind for soo long. Because on average things are usually alright until a person snaps, maybe you aren't telling them, or they know you better to know that you wouldn't do anything so "stupid/selfish". Because people don't care about something unless they are threatened with the possibility of it going away? I don't know, why don't you go ask your friends? I'm sure they'll give you a much more accurate answer than mine, in fact, go ask them now, pucker up and spill your guts to them. welli've also lit tha candle until there was no more and that i'm practically burning myself no matter how many times i replace it, things will always die down and leave u in darkness.well thanx for tha reply peace Maybe because you take it too seriously and beat a dead horse relationship, take a look at the "candle" between you and your ex, you might not notice this but their is no longer a wick to be burnt. Stop on trying to light a wickless candle, it's pretty unproductive and a waste of time. Maybe you should let the candle die out on it's own rather than continually trying to light it, maybe then you'll see some light. I doubt you'll actually even read what I have to say, so I will include some encouraging words here: ________________________________________ ______
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Like everyone as already said, CONGRATS, your human. Life is not about making things as simpl and easy as possible. Life is all about the hard times and how we deal with them, the good times are just a bonus.
Everyone wil have their heart broken here and there. Its life. Lets just say for ex gf does take u back. Do you really want to be in a realationship with a girl that only took u back because she felt sorry for you? Do u want to be in a realationship, where there other person is only pretending to love you? Live life for yourself, do what you have to, to make urself happy, u cant base your intire well being on what some one else will or will not do. Thats crazy. You say you are depressed and you cant go on and blah blah blah. I have just gotten out of a horrible state of depression. If u have read n e of my threads in the past 3 week you'll understand, but here it is in a nut shell: 4weeks ago my aunt and uncle with whom i lived with got divorced, my aunt moved out and took my 2 yearold cousin. My uncle couldnt take it, he had based his whole life on my aunt loving him, 3 weeks ago he shot himself in the head. He was a 2nd father figure in my life. I miss him terribly YOu dont realize how many ppl in this world care about you. MY uncle never thought about how many ppl this would effect, he never thought about me or the rest of my family when he did it in my house and my mom had to find him. He never thought about n e one but himself. If u think by killing yourself it will make things all better for u, your right, it will make all YOUR problems go away. But if u have a heart, and a soul, you will think about 3what u will be doing to the ppl around you, u might be gone but they are the ones that have to live each day without u. I made myself feel better by making a huge change in my life. I have decided to move and start over i guess. I made this choice because i wanted to make myself happy, because i know that only i can mmake me happy. I dont know if i'm makeing n e sence. BUt i have been through this. I do not wish this pain upon my worst enemy. If u need to talk just holla.
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okay.... I'm the ex he's talkin about... and honestly... i already gave him the best advice he needs to know.... that God loves him & killing himself isn't the answer.... he's be hurting all of thhose that he loves... and can u blame me for not talking to you right now charles? you fuckin brought up the worst thing you could when you were drunk... wishing me to suffer just kuz u can't handle being with me... have u forgotten.... "live with the pain bitch... make that 2 that you've lost".... to fuckin here those words cut me in the heart like a knife.... and for your information... losing rylan is a whole lot different... he is my bestfriend who got in an accident.. he didn't chose to kill himself ... you were choosing to do so telling me to pay for "not loving you" which is bullshit... kuz if u know me at all.. you'd know that everything i've done is for the love i HAD for u... so straighten your life up for yourself.. your family ... your friends... and the future. because i promise you that you'll find a girl who will love you & you will love her more than you could ever love me... you'll see... i promise. all i want is for u to get out of your pain & find happiness... killing yourself isn't the answer... don't blame me that i can't talk to you right now... i'm too hurt... i'm only gonna end up sayin the wrong shit.
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corrections... he's "been"..... being "without" me..
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as much as i hate to admit it.. chicks are always right when couples argue
john 2899131 FUCK I CANT BELIEVE I SAID THAT
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its funnier when you're on shrooms
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ok first off this isnt cool. My very first boyfreind became very possesive in our relationship so I broke up with him. After that he became compleatly obssesed with me and began to drive out to my house, my school, my friends houses, etc just to stay close to me. he even tried to beat up my best guy freind at the time because he was convinced i had a crush on him. ne way he was doing all this stuff because he could not handle the fact that it was him that was wrong so he wanted to blame other things instead of accept it and leave me alone. It was extreamly hard for me because I cared about him but he was just hurting me to much to be near him anymore. he would say things that would hurt me when he would give up like "If i see you in the street I wont break." 5 months later he was still hanging around and i began dating somone else then he snaped and told me he was gona kill himself and started droping off his stuff right infront of my new bf. I decided to call the police and send them to his house to make sure he was ok. It turned out that he was bluffing that time but that he was considdering it. I have never been so hurt or completely stressed out in my intire life as i was in those 5 months. He was blaming me and everything else for what he could not own up to. it turend out that he was depressed and acting out. but even so you cant treat ppl that way and expect hurtfull words and stalking to work in your favour. Its not fair to treat somone you "love" like a piece of dirt. at some point you get so angry you lose sight of what you want and just act irrationaly. you need to take some time out to do some thinking and be truthfull to yourself. dont be afraid to accept when your wrong. dont get mad just fix it. and dont be selfish to those who care about you. this dosnt sound like an out for yourself it seems like you are trying to punish the ppl that care about you. do you think thats very fair if you care about them? I dont thinks so. but yah my ex went through something like this. after that episode he got help for his depression and is doing a lot better now. he still calls me and we talk but he isnt angry anymore. it is still kinda hard because he brough me a lot of pain for a very long time. but we survived. dont talk about taking your life its not the answer and i'm sure you know deep down that its just emotions running high and that it can all be sorted out. a lot of ppl go through this. so dont think your alone. but you cant go on hurting other ppl when they can't be with you anymore because you have cut them to deep. every relationship is a learning experiance. you are only 21 ok, you have a lot of time left in your life to change things and learn from the hard times. its how you grow and become strong. so yah thats all i realy have to say. but the way your going about things just seems all wrong to me.
Last edited by Kandyapple; Mar 11, 03 at 08:41 PM.
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As a chick, if you look hard enough we may have a few falts as well. Could you belive I found somthing to apoligise for after travelling 23 hours on a coch to see my boi and find out my old boi cheeted on me?
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I find a lot of guys or more so younger ones under the age of 24 just nod and say sorry. I actualy had to tell one old bf of mine when he says sorry, has to also tell me what hes sorry fore. bc he got in the habbit of just saying sorry for anything I wasnt pleased with cause he was too scared to loose me and wouldnt bother sticking up for himself.
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C_MEN18:
-with a name like that it may be hard to pick up a chick -the others are right and have good advice, it is selfish and this post is clearly asking for attention. Want a hug? -Your thinking to negitivly, start to look at the bright side of things. Your life is what you make of it, if your gonna make it seem like it sucks and is depressing, well? Besdies life ant perfect neways. -My biggest advice... Go fucking travel and live in another country for awhile and GET OVER THE PAST. Move on to live your life. PS: And about the part where how come no one will care till its too late? Parents and familey do care adn will always care, maybe they wont bye you teh care you want but there ppl who will always worrie about you and wish the best for you. As fore your friends... Dont know what kind of friends you have but how do you treat them? "suport the freinds who suport you, and they are truely the ones worth wild and loving" Last edited by Ree Fresh; Mar 11, 03 at 11:03 PM.
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