lonely =(

[lildonkey]

it's okay galaxie... till sunday i'll be suffering with you.... god do i miss waking up and seeing her face like snugged up against my arm..... damnit!(&#^@


and mugsy... who are you to basically tell her shes not in a mature relationship because she misses her boyfriend???

anyone in love is going to miss their significant other and have a hard time learning to deal with it.... i don't blame her... i miss my girlfriend to death too.....

[lildonkey]

hey if it makes you feel any better, if xtcity ever comes back... i wont be a mod of your section kay? :) :) i know it's hard but cheer up :) .....


p.s..... my god... i would be devistated if my girlfriend told me she was leaving for a whole year.....glad that your boy will be back in 3 months :)

[mugsy]

Originally posted by galaxie


If correcting your definition of a couple of words was insulting, I'm sorry. But I wasn't about to be told that I was getting something 'constructive' and 'advice' when I wasn't. Words are defined for a reason, and the reason is communication. You miscommunicated to me because you don't fully understand that advice is supposed to be supportive and suggestive, not forceful.

no you basically you said i was unintelligent, you illuded to it. and i was extremely offended.

lil donkey, i shoul have been more explanatory, and i have said many times yah its ok to be sad and miss him, i just thought her origional post was a bit excessive.

your last sentence in this comment is belittling as well, you tell me that i dont give good critisism?

i even apoligized fro being harsh, and stating my thoughts, but that went unnoticed as well.

look, sorry for tryig to peice my point of view and my advice, i have talked to my other girlfriends and they seem to feel the same way, maybe we are all just girls who cant comprehend the magnitude of what you re going through? (ps that was sarcasm, i was being truthful)

[miss.myra]

Aww c'mon guys, give poor mugsy a break. I think she's a very smart girl and she's got a lot of good things to say and a good head on her shoulders and although some people may disagree with the delivery of her point, she does make a valid one.

Being away from someone who is special to you hurts, there is no denying that. Perhaps she just means that you should keep in mind that you should be thankful it's not worse, because it can be! A few months is a few months only, and it hurts a lot at first, but it can only strengthen a good relationship.

[Jingles]

I think that some of the extreme sadness and lonliness comes from a few things
1) the relationship though intense is still new
2) every day spent together means tough times when first a part
3)family..his, has not been wonderful
4) it's still the first month

My last real relationship was tested by the same thing after only a short time together - he was going to be away the whole summer and we had only been together 3 months -- I wrote a daily journal for him documenting my ups and downs and filled it with stickers and lipstick and stupid thoughts...cause that's the kind of lady i am

One thing about a relationship that has been around for a long time is that there is a different level of comfort -- and sometimes though distance is hard, it does not affect the same way
that's why an example of parents is not the same thing - the intensity of emotion surrounds a new relationship in your late teens is significantly different then that of well established relationship when you're in yout thirties or forties
and 'shutting down' isn't avaioded simply because you have children -- Parents are people too, it's just that children normally give you the motivation to carry on

Natalie - i know these moments you speak of -- i personally didn't lose my appetite , that has only ever happened to me in cases of extreme stress or death -- but i think you have had a lot of emotional stuff weighing on you as well
You and Mugsy both are smart ladies who deal with love differently - just leave it at that --

[Ree Fresh]

Originally Posted by Jingles

I wrote a daily journal for him documenting my ups and downs

Awww ive been doing the same thing (well hard with cram time recently) But definently a good place to vent and look back at the roller coster of feeligns you can go through and how you get though them time to time. Actulay nat I highly sugest :)

[galaxie]

I've been doing that since the day he left. He also has a little journal he writes to me in =) When he gets back, we're going to swap journals and I'm sure have a tear-fest together (and by tear-fest I mean me crying like a baby and him laughing at me for being so sappy <3)