I dont know why, but this is something i always want to know, i guess im trying to save myself from the dogs i didnt interigate in the past.
People associate a lot of partners as slutty, or a RED FLAG...no one wants to be used. Some guys dont even know how many people they've been with...its pretty sad.
And i do know people who claim pussy has no face, as there are people who are charming head fuckers who know how to get that naive young girl to bed...these are the kinds you want to stay away from, knowing a persons sexual history can help you stay away.
and goddess...you'd be suprised how rape can fuck a person up sexually, while in the big apple ive watch a far bit of howard stern, almost every porn star or stripper has a past of rape or molest in their life...they are fucked up about sex as a result...so you cant always make the clean asumption that rape turns women off of sex, i personally think they value you the act of sex less..they dont view as a loving act, and sleep around or make money off it as it has lost its sentiment. Im sure its different for everyone though. I am sorry to hear however that you were a victim of rape, i felt like my first time was not consented, i said yes but i was hella pressured and i cried and shaked, you'd think he'd stop...yah NO. Sometimes guys dont make you feel good about sex...bad times.
Getting off topic.
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