do numbers matter to you?

[krisamata]

if you're interested in someone, or dating someone ....whatever


does the number of people they've slept with bother you?

[James]

i think only if it was an obscene #, and if they were actual relationships, not just one-night stands

[robyn]

It's totally arbitrary, and a person's past is their own bussiness. As long as they're not a huge whore while they're with me, who cares?

[zarlon]

^ agreed.. well said.

as long as they got mad skillz it's all good.

[M!SKA]

as long as they keep their peen clean its all good

[Kelster]

i find the best is to avoid the question

i also think a guy with a big number of serious relationships under his belt scares me more

[neoh]

depends on the woman I suppose.

[~Sc@ndelu$~]

i think it matters to a point cus if the guy flaunts how high his number is thats gross, what a turn off.

[robyn]

Originally Posted by ~Sc@ndelu$~

i think it matters to a point cus if the guy flaunts how high his number is thats gross, what a turn off.

Yeah, but that's more of a personality thing. I mean, even if he's only slept with a few people, I don't want a guy who's going to tell me every detail of all the chicks he's banged.

[crackdragon]

I prefer not to ask, but eventually it comes up one way or another.... meh I dunno, I think on some lvl number bother everyone to some extent

[SomeGuy]

I think numbers matter if it's in the double digits.. depending on age and so forth.. I mean a 14 year old girl who's slept with 12 guy's is a definate turn off.. plus, everything is scalable depending on different factors.. was it a relationship, was it a one night stand, how old were you etc.... I think in most cases I don't wanna know cause it makes me kinda jealous.

[Miss T]

Originally Posted by M!SKA

as long as they keep their peen clean its all good

most important of all!! :)

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Originally Posted by James

i think only if it was an obscene #, and if they were actual relationships, not just one-night stands

HAHA..James.. I totally want to make a comment towards you.

Back to the topic at hand;

I think it all depends on the person. Past sexual relationships shouldnt have anything to do with the current. I personally dont want to know about them.. however.. I do find myself wanting to know the number..and thats good enough for me. As long as he's clean its all good ;D *shrug*

[decypher]

if they got STD's from it, i definately would wanna know... but other then that i wouldn't even wanna know how many guys my gf had slept with, too many mental pictures... what if shes like 20 or 30 plus, man i dont wanna know that haha, as long as she's faithful of course.

[galaxie]

I definitely want to know this number - after all, if he's my boyfriend, it's my business.

I would for sure be turned off by a guy who had a high number, especially if they were just flings or one-night stands...that, naturally, makes a girl (or anymone, for that matter) nervous. IMO, people who whore it up with a large number of partners could easily have much deeper issues than just being horny - a lot of the time people who are promiscuous have huge lack of self-esteem, and they do it for the attention. Personally, I wouldn't necessarily want to get into a relationship with someone who has those kind of issues because it can only make for sticky situations.

[CodaDrummer]

If the slutty, whore attitude doesn't come into effect when they are with me, it's all good. What's done is done... heh.

[neoh]

40? bitch, get cho' ass to the clinic! *slap*

[krisamata]

^^^^ hahahaha best post!

[Akeel]

i only date crack whores and prostitutes so it doesnt bother me.

[PHOTONIC]

Originally Posted by Hemi57

If the slutty, whore attitude doesn't come into effect when they are with me, it's all good. What's done is done... heh.

totally unrelated post... but you have a requiem for a dream avatar! So jealous. Good karma comes you way today.:)

And if they numbers are high, then it counts

[Mo...]

i just dont care to know... so i have nothin to bother me :)

[MC Hammered]

It's all about quality and not quantity.

And I'd never belive most guys that brag about #'s anyway.

[mapleleaf4ever]

If they were getting paid... then we have a bigger issue at hand...

[sass69]

as long as I know they're clean and not sleeping around still It's all good:D

[heatherness]

hmm....
well, i think its some crazy amount then yea it'd probably turn me off..
sometimes its just better not to know.
then again, i think if i was in a relationship with someone i'd wanna know.