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Nov 19, 04
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and i don't really think that martin was like ABOUT it or something, i think he was just avoiding saying something about it perhaps because he didn't want to be mean, but like what dan was saying, a little ways back. i dont know. i was kinda miffed by it at first, but i know he loves me, and not her, so why would he like want it to be happening? or maybe he just didn't think it was as big of a deal as i do? i dont know. 
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Nov 19, 04
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^^ my thoughts are so... i can't see how it could be anything else.
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Nov 19, 04
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I think your over-reacting a bit, you shoudnt worry so much about things like that...doesnt sound that bad.
if he actualy does anything with her then its his loss and he just screwed up whatever he had going on with you,and you can find someone a lot better.. end of story move on! Just because two co-workers were hanging out and having a drink or something doesnt mean you should get all jealous ... now if she tried to like kiss him or something along those lines..then yeah for sure say something to her or a nice slap across the face can cause the right effect hehe! okay just my 2 cents
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Nov 19, 04
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You really gotta cool it on use of the word 'like' ashes.. HOLY! 'like' HOLY!
Anyways... I hear where your coming from... I don't know much about your relationshit with your boy.. but anyways.. he's known this girl for awhile eh? Well.. maybe she's one of the girls that don't like you stepping on thier turf, not in the sense that she belongs to him.. but in the sense that she doesnt want you in the picture and is trying to push you so you hit her!? and if you bf dont like that, and you do hit her and he gets upset or whatever. maybe he's not worth it in the first place. I've had my friends try and go against my desicions on what I wanted.. and I didnt let them win[tho in the end they did :soak:]. Maybe you should talk to him and see what he says about her. perhaps it may hurt witt his answer but deal with it. if anything over come it and dont let the penis muncher win. Girls do anythign to piss off other girls.. its fucking pathetic.. but if anything pull that girl aside and have a lil'chat.. not saying the type of chat where your saysing "back off my back before I beat you' more in the sense of asking her if she has a problem with you or if you can call a truths.?! I know if I were you and some girl was all up on my man infront of me.. even if I wasn't legally allowed down there.. I'd fuckin reagrange her face and make her service the bouncers cock. tho that can be seen as over reacting.. but yeh.. I hate girls so its just in my eyes.
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Nov 19, 04
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Yeh Matt has my perspective.
Some guys and girls lead lives where they meet lots of people and are flirty with friends. You should ask him straight-up if they have had a past together, or if it has been strickly friends. This is because if they have just been friends and have never hooked up, then they could just be flirty friends. I have some girls who are sooo close to me, but i haven't or wouldn't think of hooking up with them, and we are always huggy, touchy. Were just very good friends. You should talk to him and settle it once and for all. Assure his loyalty, make sure they dont have a past, then let it rest. If they are just friends your gonna have to deal with their flirtatious ways. You can't expect someone who has been friends with someone else for years to just start acting totally different around each other. I understand though, jeolousy can be VERY hard. But if you are truely close you should be able to trust each other. This goes for guys and girls, as guys can get REALLY jeolous. I believe a guy who can deal with a girlfriend who is flirty with her guy friends, shows alot of maturity. If they do end up cheating, its there loss, and they weren't worth your time in the first place, soooooo......NEXT!!! oh and Don't let him get up on your man, girlfriend mmmmmmmmhmmmmmmmmm *snap*
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Nov 19, 04
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Awe that sucks...I know how you feel I tend to be a jealouse person and if I were you I wouldn't know what to do try talking to her so you dont cause drama cause you dont want any of that and if she keeps flirting with your bf and nothing changes you'll have to go at it a diffrent way.
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Nov 19, 04
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I think you should figure out why you get so jealous.
If your boyfriend said he's not going to cheat on you, and you know your boyfriend isn't going to cheat on you, you're just creating drama by getting so worked up over it. And the way I see it, your BF was just trying to be nice, the two of them were drinking and she was flirting. You know, some people are very touchy and flirt with everyone. If they're friends, he probably just thought it was innocent. And all this advice about telling the girl to pratically fuck off is bad advice in my opion. Why would you want to drive a wedge between your boyfriend and one of his friends? especially if they work together. If he isn't going to do something stupid, don't force situations on him. You just sound insecure with your relationship, maybe you should focus on that rather then smashing this girls face.
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Nov 19, 04
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im big on beating the fuck out of people, i dont like it how people get put in catagories like oh that just the way that person is bla bla bla, if someone fucks around with you and you let them get away its ur fualt, i never EVER let anyone walk on me or people i know, lots of people fuck around cause they know 99% of people wont do shit about im in the other 1%,i think you should do something about it, people will learn real quick that trying to pick up ur man is a bad idea :) raver stomp her ass :)
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Nov 19, 04
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If he doesn't seem to care that her actions are hurting you, you need to SERIOUSLY reevaluate your relationship with him. That sort of attitude just leaves the door open for all sorts of nasty possiblities. What if she kisses him? Is he going to brush it off as "oh, that's just her...She just does shit like that."? That's bunk. Talk to him and get the situation resolved before you get hurt. Good luck.
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Nov 19, 04
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being jelous is human nature..
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Nov 20, 04
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I think the thing is that guys are a lot more aloof to flirtatious behaivor than girls are. I'm just speaking from the majority of my experiences here.
I don't think Ash is overreacting at all. The bottom line here is that this girl is clearly not respecting the fact that this man is taken, and the fact that she acts this way in front of her again shows no respect as well. It's fine to be protective of your male friends, especially when a girlfriend comes into their life, but unless this girlfriend is seriously doing something to hurt your friend (which I would highly doubt Ashes is doing, it seems like she's crazy about him!), you gotta give them their space and respect the fact that your friend is smitten. I've been in Ashes shoes before. I had a boyfriend for three years who had female friends that just never quite got the fact that I was his girlfriend..I saw them all the time and I was friendly enough and they never even bothered to remember my name. They acted like total fucking ditzy flirtatious idiots to him in front of me and he never reciprocated the behaivor, which made me not have any major issues with him, but with the girls themselves. The thing is, it completely drove me nuts and I never really did much about it, so I really hope this works out well for you in the end, Ashes.
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Nov 20, 04
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they dont kick it, they dont hang out, outside of the scene, they just see eachother at parties occasionally, and are on the same crew, goodbeat. which is why i have only met this girl a few times. She is very flirty i guess, but it seems to be only with my man, and i dont really see her hanging on other guyz. so that is part of what irks me. i really identify with what you said about the girls >> "just never quite got the fact that I was his girlfriend..I saw them all the time and I was friendly enough and they never even bothered to remember my name. They acted like total fucking ditzy flirtatious idiots to him in front of me and he never reciprocated the behaivor, which made me not have any major issues with him, but with the girls themselves">> thats how i feel... i dont think its really him, although he didn't do much about it at the time, i hadn't really confronted him about it before involving this girl. and now i did, and he knows it bothers me, so i cant really hold anything against him, unless he were to let it happen again.
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Nov 20, 04
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and know what sucks even more?
She is playing at my birthday party, the show im throwing, next month.
WEAK i can't do anything, cuz the production co., and it's all goodbeat dj's playin it. *sigh*
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Nov 20, 04
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I'm a big flirt and when I was Dj'ing full time I used to flirt with girls primarily for the fact that if they had fun and came back out to a party or club I was spinning at then that was a job well done. In this case however that doesn't seem to be it. Ashes you a sweetheart but somethings up there! This would require more analysis as I do not know him or the situation in more detail.
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Nov 20, 04
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check it >> http://www.fnk.ca/board/showthread.php?t=65279 party party wut.
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Nov 20, 04
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jealousy is an awful thing, and its terribly un-preventable.
honestly, i want to smack ladies that look at my boyfriend let alone touch him. but, friends are friends, and im less jealous about those. along the lines of what you have said - whenever i meet any of my male friends new girlfriends (if me and the boy are good friends or aquaintances) i usually dont even hug the guy. and unless the girl is a complete bitch\bad for my friend, i befriend her. if anything as another girl i know and understand that sometimes its a little awkward being the new girl in the group. anyways, back to my origional opinion, i completely agree with your actions, as crazy as they may sound. i dont neccessarily agree with actually hitting the chick, but i think you should have some anger\resentment. sometimes it can suck to have outrageously handsome and intellectual wonders of boyfriends.....
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