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Nov 20, 04
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hehehe.. ya im not all that sweet and innocent... :P no seriously.. i am sucha nice person... genuine and caring and would proabbly do anything for anyone... BUT.. when some bitch is all up on my man... i can be SOOOO nasty.. its not cause i am insecure.. its the fact that girls should know their boundaries.. i wouldnt go do that to someone else guy.. so they should have a little fucking respect and not do that to other girls guys... u dig?.... u dont wanna see me mad...!!! lol ill come down and make that chick stay away from ur man ashes.. just gimme a couple hours... mwuahaha. 
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Nov 20, 04
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hahaha veni instill the fear!!! I remember when I was pissed at this one girl for her trying to hit on my bf. After she found out I was pissed. She would cross the street to avoid me. She thought I was going to pound her face flat. Just knowing that she was freaked was awsome. Even though I probably wouldn't do anything. I have a rule. They have to swing first. Then it's game on. unless of course it's some beastly woman. But they arn't the type that would worry me about trying to take my man anyway.
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Nov 21, 04
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I don't think it's that easy to just not be upset. I mean don't go acting like a lunatic. But if she has a good relationship, he shouldn't just bolt if she is just letting him know it makes her uncomfortable. It's totaly reasonable when she is blatently being disrespected. And it can be very uncomfortable with the age difference. Ex: not being able to go into the bar when he has her all over him. It can make you feel a bit helpless I'm sure. I think she just needs to sit down with her bf and have a talk. Just say where she stands and that it makes her uncomfortable. Don't be demanding saying that he can't hang out. But he needs to show some respect and not let this girl have her way. It shouldn't be that much to ask if he has not intentions to do anything with her. Just set your girlfriends mind at ease.
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Nov 21, 04
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hmmm...
I will just give my side of it...I haven't read all the responses so this may have already been said.... I had a really good friend named B. B and I had a history but it had long since passed. My new girl, who I love(d) very much didn't like B cause B would hang off of me and be all flirty and such but would not be nice to my girl. It made me kinda sad that two people I cared about didn't like each other but what could I do? THEN my girl told me that she didn't want me to talk to B anymore... I don't have that girlfriend anymore... The point being, if you trust your man, then it shouldn't matter if some chicky is hanging off of him or not. Was he making out with her or sleeping with her? If he wasn't then you need to address your own insecurities before getting mad at the other girl...If this girl likes him then you should take it as a compliment that you are the one who bagged this desirable guy instead of worrying about someone treading on your turf... THis sounds kinda mean and I don't mean it to be but, take it from me, nothing ruins a relationship faster than insecurity and jealousy... Good luck with it. I hope things work out for you hun. :)
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Nov 22, 04
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Yah but your experiance was ended with a forced decision. It doesn't sound like she gave you a choice. It was just don't talk to her. I think initialy Ash maybe freeked in the heat of the moment. But she knows now to just deal with it respectfully. But if it makes her uncomfortable, I don't think she should have to just put up with it. If you can't have the hard conversations with your bf, without worrying he will just dump you, then you arn't in the right relationship. I understand you probably mean that just don't freek out, and tell him not to see her. But I don't see any point in suppressing it to save the relationship. Then you have one clueless person and one hurt one.
Last edited by Kandyapple; Nov 22, 04 at 05:44 AM.
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Nov 22, 04
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I did not ask him not to see her, and i have spoken with him more since the incident. I told him that i felt like she was extremely disrepectful to me, considering that she has made no effort to recognize my existence, nor has she repected the fact that my man is attached.
he then said to me, out of his own right, i did not suggest it... that at my birthday party (this will be the next time we see her) he would not talk to her, and if she pursues him more, he will tell her that she makes me uncomfortable and that its his girlfriends birthday and he needs to be with me. So i think that this shows that he does care about how i feel and that it will hopefully not be a problem again. however, if after all that, she continues to act the same way, i will simply have a little talk with her.
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Nov 23, 04
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I feel ya hun!
Oh do I ever!
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Nov 23, 04
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Nov 23, 04
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That chick that's hitting on your man sounds like a huge bitch. Talk to her and be like look her bitch he's my man, so stay the fuck away from him or I'll kick your ass. Also tell your man to throw her of him the next time the bitch tries shit. Why was he letting her hang all over him.
If I had a girlfriend and saw some asshole trying to get with her, I'd knock him out, I wouldn't care about anything and if my girlfriend didn't push him away I'd get pissed of at her and dump her. It takes two to flirt, be careful girl, don't get hurt. I rather you hurt the bitch than to see you crying and being hurt. Talk to your man and let him know how much this bugs you he should respect it and tell the other chick to back off. Good Luck
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Nov 23, 04
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He was letting her hang all over him, I GUESS, because she was "just drunk" and thats "just how she is" and he didn't want to be mean. or something.
all i know, (and i told this to him) is that i would NEVER let ANY guy TOUCH me, let ALONE, hang all over me, because to me, that feels TOTALLY WRONG. and i couldn't do it without feeling guilty, and thats how i know its wrong. i dont understand why he didn't have the same feeling. and maybe he did, and he was just trying not to be mean... i dont really know. he says he never has/never will have a thing for her, and so i have to believe him, because i trust what he says.
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Nov 23, 04
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Well if your man says that then ya you should trust him, but tell him that the bitch bugs you and that you don't want her all over him, its not being mean, its just the way it has to be. He's your man and you love him so that bitch should be told to step back by both him and you. I hope everything works out girl, good luck.
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Nov 23, 04
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well thanks, i hope things will work out, we'll see soon enough.. if that stupid hoe, fucks with me on my freakin BIRTHDAY... i will kick her ass hard-ta-tha-core stylz.
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Nov 23, 04
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Well it's your party right. So that means you call the shots. I think if she tries to fuck around. Just tell security that she was dealing drugs or something and get her kicked the fuck out! Or if she is wearing white just accidentaly spill some wine or a red substance on a chair she is sitting on. That would be awsome if she had to spin right after infront of everyone. Muahhahahaahaha :kam:
Last edited by Kandyapple; Nov 23, 04 at 07:40 AM.
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Nov 23, 04
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Nov 23, 04
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"Hey I wana give you a hug" Then you run at her with your arm out and "accidentaly" run it into her neck. Opps tee hee. Or just get a pose of people to flail there fists into her face. Ok am I going to far? meh.
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Nov 24, 04
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Dec 02, 04
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It wasn't made up. I was there. I witnessed it myself.
And besides that, I would listen to my man, no matter what he told me, because I trust him and know that he would not lie. Even if she did tell me that I would not jump to conclusions and assume that it was true. I would have a hard time believing he could do such a thing, and furthermore, a harder time believing that he could lie to me about it if it did in fact happen and I confronted him about it.
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Dec 06, 04
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Honestly You havent had a normal relationship if youd break up with your gf for not pushing a guy off, some girls are nice so they cant do that, Im sure as hell know Ill probably wont push a girl off, there are other ways. Oh, and some guys are clueless and cant actually tell if a girl is hitting on them.
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Dec 07, 04
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If it was me, and there was some guy, a DRUNK guy nonetheless, hanging all over me and getting all up on me, and I didn't do a thing, how would he feel? The answer was that he wouldn't be down with it, that he would feel bad, so why should i stand to see it happen vice versa? I don't care what YOU would do, thats why im not dating YOU, because you WOULDN'T push some girl away, and why are you with someone, and that person only, if they are letting other people get up on them? thats ridiculous. ps- its not hard to tell when a girl is hitting on you, if she's all giggling and leaning in to you, and touching you and such. however, yes some guyz are clueless, but that in no way means they dont know whats going on.
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