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Jul 13, 05
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Broke up the beau today so now i'm finally part of the singles club...wow I haven't been single in 4 years.
I've been waiting too long for this. 
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Jul 20, 05
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I offically fold! Anytime i make a connection ....there is always a shitty aftermath, or some stipulation that just sucks.
i know this is a bad atitude to have (its been a bad week!!!), but im kinda starting to think i am jinked in this department and will be single until death do ME part. Nothing works out. we are better off alone. Other people just hurt you. PS: check your baggage before you start exploring....it's un-fair to the tour guide digging your tropical shirt.
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Jul 20, 05
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[quote=Tea]I offically fold! Anytime i make a connection ....there is always a shitty aftermath, or some stipulation that just sucks.
we are better off alone. Other people just hurt you. QUOTE] Honestly, I've been in and out of relationships almost back to back (sometimes running INTO each other) for the last 7 years. I think the longest spell of singledom for me was 6 weeks, and that was because I was out of the country for 5 of them and don't believe in long distance relationships.... So having recently declared my intentions of singledom this summer and intending to enjoy everything that being a young 20-something has to offer, I'm quite perplexed as to why I suddenly find myself falling for another guy.... Damn. It's true then: you always tend to find someone whenever you aren't looking...
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Jul 21, 05
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Jul 23, 05
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merlin totally rocks my boat.
i'd do him.
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Jul 23, 05
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Im quite enjoying the single life at the moment
zero stress or drama! :)
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Jul 24, 05
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Since he is doing this to you - you should do something like this to him. Just stop trying to be friends with him and get on with your life.
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Jul 24, 05
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usually i love it ...today i hate it....:(
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Jul 24, 05
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maybe thats what it is kenji...maybe i need to go boyfriend hunting...lol....fu*k that suckz...got to be the worst thing to do..but you know in a way i was always told dont look for it will find you...well i guess i have sorta been waitng and in 3 years it still hasnt found me...sigh*
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Jul 24, 05
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Anyway, respect my opinion - it's actually a good point if you think about it. I just didn't think that Ms.Chop thought of it that way, so I said it.
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Jul 25, 05
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If you both have some time apart to get over each other you can be friends again one day. It's hard on him too, and i'm sure spending time with you is only reinforcing the pain so give it LOTS of time. I know it's hard because I'm going through the same thing where i'll start thinking about all the good times and how insanely happy we used to make eachother and just cry. But you need to remember the bad parts too, and why it ended. It sounds very negative but it helps a lot.
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Jul 25, 05
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Except in cases like this. Where you're clearly wrong. I have 3 exes I'm still on awesome terms with. Fuck, two of them are fnkers and are amongst my best friends. Just because someone's attracted to someone shouldn't put aside the idea that they can be friends. I'd rather be friends with someone I liked that much than not know them at all. And if a romantic relationship doesn't pan out, so be it. Go find someone who's interested in you too. I guarantee you the moments you'll share will be a lot more significant. In ways you may not understand yet. Sometimes it's easy to let a meef of a relationship break off all contact. Mainly because surrounding a breakup everybody's emotions are intense and pretty easy to collide with any excuse they want to... So yeah, breaking up is pretty delicate. But that's not to say that it can't go with a positive friendship as a result. edit: Exes also do a good job of pointing out where you oft meef up with the opposite gender. It's true! Who would know better about your shortcomings with the opposite gender than a member of the opposite gender you screwed up with!
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