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it has its ups and downs.
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I am SO on the same page as you. Is it wrong that i don't miss my ex at all? Probably explains why we are not together anymore; but i have to say i love being single so much that it makes it hard to be around friends who want a boy/friends who have a boy and wont shut up about him and the "problems."
If a boy is problem, then maybe its not worth it, a guy should be something that makes you happy, not something that you bitch about 24/7. I guess it just feels really good not to be one of those girls who settles just to 'have' a boyfriend. Who is weak enough not to stand up for herself by seeing that see deserves better. Bottom line, dont compromise....being single is a great thing. I really think it is soo important to have a realtionship with yourself, to be able to take care of yourself and be sufficent to exist happily without another person because you have goals/dreams for yourself. two become one? how bout 50/50 Last edited by Tea; May 10, 05 at 02:43 AM.
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^ Make that three.
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been single, by choice, for over a year and a half now. i love it, i have my freedom and independance..its great, i have never been happier. but at the same time it does get lonely sometimes, but i think at the moment it deffinatly beats being tied down....
it has its ups and downs, but overall im content
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It's the Shiznits ... hahaha .. well actualy ... it's awsome for the first couple of months cause you have the time of your life and you don't have to worry about nothing or any concequencess ... ( i bet i totaly miss-spelled that one) lol ... but yahh ... but after a while ... it starts to lick a little ... iono ...
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I love being single and doing things to make myself happy and not having to worry about a b/f that may not like it. But at the same time I do miss the always having someone to snuggle with when I come home..
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its nice to be single :) feels like no ones holding me back from the things i want to do.
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i don't really have anything to compare it to, considering i've never been in a serious long-term relationship. :\
however, at this stage i'm totally in love with my life and myself, so it makes it hard for anyone else to compete. haha. i love working towards things that will make me happy, and making big plans without having to include anyone else. i also looovvvvveeee being able to casually and innocently date multiple people. it's the summer, it's the best time ever to be single and i'm pretty damn stoked.
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Yuh, I definitely am a huge fan of the freedom I have as a single person and I'm kind of hesitant to give that up. (of course, a good relationship usually means not having to give that up, but does that happen often?) It gets hard when you just want someone to be a total hermit with, or to cuddle with, or do other things with when you don't have a reliable person to be readily avaliable
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i was single for 2 years and it was the best thing that happened to me. Taught me how to live for myself and not *need* to be in a relationship and made me far happier and secure with who I am.
Now I'm in a fantastic relationship and a lot of my attitude had to do with that 2 years of being single.
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^^
Agreed. Alot of the shit i went through and learned about myself when i was single has seriously benefitted my current relationship. Before my single stage, every relationship i was in was a complete mess. After exploring the singles 'scene', i appriciate and am much more mature about my current relationship.
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