Young girls getting pregnant

She smokes like a chimney and wont quit because she thinks the stress will be bad for her baby.

??? hahaha.... If you're clever enough, can justify anything!

[Jeaninah]

Originally Posted by BongMan

Well if she is under 18 I do believe she falls under her parents care and dollar unless this has been resolved with the government. But hey I may be wrong its been known to happen.

Basically as it stands she does not have any parents.

This is really sad. I feel so terrible because shes so happy.

[Jeaninah]

Originally Posted by stephen_c

oh f*ck, u mean she IS in nanaimo!

caledonian clinic
340 campbell street
nanaimo
250-248-6123

they have 2 clinics, north and south

shes like an hour past nanaimo

[Toxxin Ephekt]

Originally Posted by robyn

Sneak up behind her and push her down the stairs.

hahahahahhaha,that's harsh, hahahahaha

[BongMan]

Originally Posted by Jeaninah

Basically as it stands she does not have any parents.

This is really sad. I feel so terrible because shes so happy.

Thats unfortunate any relatives??


Really I am not seeing much hope for this kid unless daddy starts makin some coin and mommy stops being a stupid kid.. If needed I will call and tell her how dumb she is..

[Jeaninah]

It makes me cry. I can't imagine growing up in an unstable home. I was lucky to have really good parents that have been together going on 30 years now. I just feel bad for this baby and its not even born yet. I can't imagine being a child with a really sore throat and my mom say "sorry we can't go to the doctors cause we can't afford it". Its a terrible thing.

[stringbeans]

all teen pregnancies in abbotsford can be attributed to kenny grant

[stephen_c]

Originally Posted by BongMan

Well if she is under 18 I do believe she falls under her parents care and dollar unless this has been resolved with the government. But hey I may be wrong its been known to happen.

they cannot and will not refuse u especially if ur still a minor.
this is after all canada.

[stephen_c]

Originally Posted by Jeaninah

shes like an hour past nanaimo

which way?
ladysmith south or parksville north?
although both is under an hour.

[Jeaninah]

duncan

[stephen_c]

well, i don't kno how severe the situation is,
but if it continues like u described,
most likely social services will step in.

[stephen_c]

Originally Posted by Jeaninah

duncan

duncan is about half way btw victoria and nanaimo.

ps. i am sure there'r lots of docs in duncan she can visit.

[Hero.Skye]

give that jailbait a swift kick in the ass to set her straight. eck, just eck.

[wum]

If she's going to keep the baby her best bet is to go with a pro-life charity that will offer thousands.

[Jeaninah]

Originally Posted by wum

If she's going to keep the baby her best bet is to go with a pro-life charity that will offer thousands.

whats that?

[A-BOMB]

16 year old girls are dumb

[wum]

Originally Posted by Jeaninah

whats that?

it's a charity that gives money to mothers at risk for aborting their babies... I'm not sure if it would work in your friends case, but the baby is certainly at a disadvantage.

Here's the UK branch and their mission statement:

LIFE is a national charity. We are a pro-life organisation and therefore committed to upholding the utmost respect for human life from fertilisation (conception). Our aim has always been to provide help and support to women, especially young women, who are faced with a problem pregnancy. This is exactly what we have done for over 30 years, and we have a network of services available nationwide. We help thousands of women (and men) every year.

[...]

LIFE can provide practical help and support after birth. We have a network of baby shops which can supply baby clothes and equipment, and our centres can also supply equipment to anyone who might need our help. Please contact us for more details.

http://www.lifeuk.org/about_life/about_home.php

I'm sure Canada has its own. :)

[brokencrayon]

Originally Posted by Jeaninah

I already did. I told her shes already killing her baby. Shes not thinking logically. She wants a baby I think because she wants somebody to love her.

or she thinks it will make her bf stay with her forever. she probably thinks it guarantees her a lifetime with him and a family... which is sad. She needs to have a major reality check.

[sungoo]

Man, It bothers me when people don't take good care of their bodies when having a baby. The fact that she's not even finding out how best to deal with the situation shows that she's not responsible enough to take care of a child. And from what I understand, if you're a smoker, and having a baby; quitting cold turkey does create stress but it's still recommended that you quit, but gradually. cutting back a few cigarettes a week.
Really, the greatest tragedy is the fact that this kid will probably live a harsh life.

[Varney Rae]

Those facts scream BAD SITUATION. If she doesnt see that I dont think theres much chance of you being able to bring the reality to her eyes. Id say be BLUNT, as blunt as you can possibly be. She'll get mad , but its worth it for saving her from the possibility of ruining her life.

[wum]

here's a tip when the kid is born: REFUSE ALL VACCINATIONS AT ALL COSTS.

Click here

[dj_soo]

that poor baby is soooo screwed...

[miss.myra]

Medical coverage is mandatory for all citizens and permanent residents of this country

basic medical comes at a premium of $54 a month, but if this person is sixteen and making six dollars an hour, she is certainly eligible to have her medical fully subsized. She most likely has coverage, she just assumes she doesn't and that happens all the time. More than likely given her age and the fact that she is on her own, she probably is under some kind of care of the ministry of children and families that provides extensive basic and enhanced coverage. If she doesn't, I'd definitely advise her to visit a ministory of human resources office stat and get herself some help.

remember, you live here, YOU ARE COVERED :317:

[Custard]

the bf is going to leave her when teh kids 3 months old. shes screwed. she should adopt the baby.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Originally Posted by Jeaninah

This very young girl that I know (16) is pregnant, she wants to keep it. Heres whats happening. She makes $6 and hour, her bf (whose like 23) makes $11 and hour. They dont have any medical and she hasn't been to a doctor in a couple years. She smokes like a chimney and wont quit because she thinks the stress will be bad for her baby. She can't even go to the doctor and get an opinion because they dont have enough money to pay for the visit. She is so happy about it and she thinks that love alone will raise her baby. I dont even know what to say to her cause she is looking to me and my bf for support. What do I do. ...

okay shes 16,as far as i know if youre under 18 youre still covered by msp REGARDLESS of wether or not ur parents have medical or not. If she smokes like a chimney and is already pregnant the baby is already addicted to the nicotine as well so YES in theory QUITTING COLD TURKEY would PUT THE BABY THROUGH WITHDRAWLS and stress etc.However CUTTING DOWN,and EVENTUALLY QUITTING,should be fine.

I salute her for her decision to have her child,because coming from a woman who just recently had to go through an abortion and knowing what I know now about the emotional and mental after affects of abortion...if i could turn back time and change everything thats done...i would.

what do you do? You dont do fuck all but support her in whatever decision she makes,sure it might not be one you agree with but if this is someone you truely care about you WILL be there for her UNCONDITIONALLY.

Im not even going to go any further because this just makes me fucking angry to no end.