no more sex

[justShell]

okay. so im done with sex for a while. ive come to a realization that im sick of having sex with guys and not even relaly caring about them and they really dont care about me. its all fun and everything. nothing wrong with that. but its getting annoying.i havent even been in an actual relationship for over a year. and thinking about it.. imma try my hardest to not have sex till i actually have a mutual liking with a guy. which with my luck wont happen for another year. cause i like a guy they dont like me. they like me i dont like them..that is all.

[gratia]

awe hun. that a good plan ;) random sex is fun for a while but it just ends up in loneliness and emptiness most of the time. not that i would personally know....but i feel your pain. *hugs*

[baby-phat]

Um.. does this no sex thing include no sex wit da ladies too? ;) =P

[Roxxie]

dats a gud idea!! iono ive tried having sex wif i guy i dun care for i dun like it!! its much better wen u both like each other i cant do da random thing makes all i thought about was like holy fuck wen is it gunna end!! LoL it wasnt gud hahah

[justShell]

well.. its not about no sex.. its just about no sex till i find someone thats worth having sex with and isnt just about the bootay call and thinks the same about me.... :D

that for angel

[baby-phat]

meow.
I love ya y'know! :171: hehehe

[justShell]

Originally Posted by baby-phat

meow.
I love ya y'know! :171: hehehe

i know i know.. so get your cute lil ass over here to the mainland

[gratia]

^^^^i second that

[baby-phat]

hehe.. <3
I'm-a comin over on Thursday me thinkies!! I'll be out in full force for Friday night!! :D
speed garage + dnb + jager = very happy Angel girlie! lol

[gratia]

^^^^^ ah...dnb orgie WUT! lol sheesh i hope i get out on friday night. i get my schedule tomorrow, i hope i am not working this weekend *crosses fingers*

[dabbler]

i'm totally doing the same thing, i want to avoid wasting time hooking up with someone who doesn't really care, far better to be with someone who makes you REALLY happy ya know?

[gratia]

^^^^^ yes yes yes. now if only i could find that

[justShell]

yeeaw. if only you girls.. were guys.. id be all about that. sadly my problem isnt olved.. but i shall get nice and fucked up this weekend fo sho. it makes it all seem okay. even though its not.

[neoh]

see, what people don't understand is sex should not be about just getting your rocks off and bragging rights. Sex should be about mutual love and compassion towards one another, and should be treated as an emotion rather then a feeling, only then can you truely get satisfaction out of it.

[justShell]

Originally Posted by dabbler

i'm totally doing the same thing, i want to avoid wasting time hooking up with someone who doesn't really care, far better to be with someone who makes you REALLY happy ya know?

wow.. a guy that knows what im sayin. props to you.. your one of few :D and you'll find a great someone to make you happy. good luck on your search..

[gratia]

Originally Posted by neoh

see, what people don't understand is sex should not be about just getting your rocks off and bragging rights. Sex should be about mutual love and compassion towards one another, and should be treated as an emotion rather then a feeling, only then can you truely get satisfaction out of it.

well said ;)

[baby-phat]

Originally Posted by dabbler

i'm totally doing the same thing, i want to avoid wasting time hooking up with someone who doesn't really care, far better to be with someone who makes you REALLY happy ya know?

But what if someone makes you really happy but they don't want anything serious but you kinda do? *sigh*

[dabbler]

Originally Posted by neoh

see, what people don't understand is sex should not be about just getting your rocks off and bragging rights. Sex should be about mutual love and compassion towards one another, and should be treated as an emotion rather then a feeling, only then can you truely get satisfaction out of it.

VERY well said

i suppose the real problem with most guys is self control. as in they have none.
lol

[gratia]

^^^^hehe...there are sum girls that are just as bad tho

[neoh]

Originally Posted by dabbler

VERY well said

i suppose the real problem with most guys is self control. as in they have none.
lol

see dabbler, you and I think a lot a like when it comes to women, i've found from things you've posted about in the past and this specific one. Men are pigs, and there are only a select handfull of men out there that realise and acknowledge that fact, whom dont treat women like objects.

[Akeel]

"sometimes you just gotta get the white out." - SEAN!

[dabbler]

Originally Posted by gratia

^^^^hehe...there are sum girls that are just as bad tho

yes totally true

[Ree Fresh]

Its deffinently worth the wait! I cant handel the one night fling or fuck buddy thing. Either I feel guilty or feel like ive been treated like shit.

My advice is keep your self busy and focused on your self and friends. If you have respect for your self, youll attract ppl who have respect for you.

I dont think its worth treating yourself or others like nothing... It may feel right for a couple of hours or a day or two... but I find the time after doesnt make it worth it at all. However there are some ppl who can handle it... and I think thats fine, just be clear with who ever you get with of what you want out of it or else someone is gonna get hurt.


Otherwise cutose to you!

[baby-phat]

That's so true Rhia.
But in some situations it's not that simple, or like that. I'd eleborate more but meh. Not everyone needs to know everything. heh.

[justShell]

Originally Posted by Akeel

"sometimes you just gotta get the white out." - SEAN!

yes. SOMETIMES... lol.. your missing my point here... :D i never said that you dont.. im just saying i want somoene that wants to do more than that.