change.

[mapleleaf4ever]

Like mojo said... keep busy.

But don't let work absorb your life either. Keep a healthy balance.

Set priorities and goals and do your best to stick to them.

You are in a more fortunate situation as a lot of your Friends and even your Family are still relatively close by. You're a decent guy and have common sense Bevan. You'll do just fine.

Best of luck, change is good... go with it and make the best of it!

- Erik

[tiedye]

feed those emotions into music.

[Lenny]

Originally Posted by Cheez

its not so much bummed out, just scared. its sorta like practicing to be a tightrope walker with a safety net all your life, then all ov a sudden they take it away, andf you just hope to god you can keep your balance. thats sorta how i feel

don't be skurred bevan.. well maybe a little. sometimes it takes a few falls to get yourself going. but like people have been saying, there's a certain level of fullfilment that comes from doing things on your own and any fear you might have should be mixed with and equal amount of excitment. word is bond.

[lola_phyne]

Bevan you know I will always be here for you. What are bestfriends for if not for these kinds of things. You were out on your own last time and you did pretty well. I think you'll be able to handle it. As for staying focused I think you're the one that's always been able to do that and giving me advice on it. I see no reason to worry. Though I do understand what you' re feeling. I was scared when I left home but I had to. I'm glad I did. It made everything better. My relationship with my parents improved and my out look on life changed for the better. Plus you were there for me when I needed you. Expect the same from me this time around. <3 If you need help moving I'm free sunday if the offer is still up.

[LastWerd]

Originally Posted by dabbler

i moved out when i was 16 and still in high school. worked full time and barely made it. the main thing that allowed me to do so was that i knew i would end up a better person by going thru it all. take this as a good way to improve many things in your life imo

Exact same with me. But I was 17.

I have been so up and so freakin down. But I stayed strong and I am happy now. Life still gets hard and fusterating at times, but you just have to keep the people close to you happy, stick to your dreams, be honest, have some trust in people and don't give jerks your time of day.
Things are scary Bev, but that is what good friends are for. They have helped me and I help them back.
Good luck Bevan; life sucks alot but alot of things are dope. Focus on the good and the stable things!

[LastWerd]

Originally Posted by lola_phyne

Bevan you know I will always be here for you. What are bestfriends for if not for these kinds of things. You were out on your own last time and you did pretty well. I think you'll be able to handle it. As for staying focused I think you're the one that's always been able to do that and giving me advice on it. I see no reason to worry. Though I do understand what you' re feeling. I was scared when I left home but I had to. I'm glad I did. It made everything better. My relationship with my parents improved and my out look on life changed for the better. Plus you were there for me when I needed you. Expect the same from me this time around. <3 If you need help moving I'm free sunday if the offer is still up.

yea, she knows what is up with you Bevan!

you will be fine!

[ebbomega]

i must not fear. fear is the mind-killer. fear is the little-death that brings total oblivion. i will face my fear. i will permit it to pass over me and through me. and when it has gone by i will turn the inner eye to see its path. only i will remain.