long distance relationships

[NinjaBoy]

Wow, this thread go dumb fast!

[cubed]

Courts, I would have started that with something other than "YOU DON'T KNOW ME...", it's only going to fuel the fire.

=(

[ppcock]

you've been in long distance relationships. Those relationships are a waste of time. They almost always never work out.
Now why do you think that is. What's the point of even getting into one? There's gotta be some options here.
And you can't really go with "All guys here are dumb" All guys anywhere are dumb.
More importantly, we're wolves. Having a long distance relationship means that either party can (and probably do) fuck other people... So if you're thinking you're going to be treated like a real person, you've got issues. Esp. if the guy is somewhat attractive, he's probably boning some girl right now and you'll never know.
The only way a long distance relationship will ever work is if the guy is fucking retarded, fat, ugly, has reallllllllllllllll low self esteem or lives under a rock.

You say you've been in more than one.. why didnt the first one work out? My guess is - BECAUSE IT'S A FREAKIN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

They're pointless, you've got issues if you can't find someone local.

You're right, I dont know you.. but from what I've seen you're just like every other girl in vancouver, filled with drama and immature.

You'll say I'm wrong here because all this is going way passed you.. but I've helped so many friends in similar situations that it's becoming so freakin retarded that my only assistance is saying "stop dreaming in your make believe bull shit world, uncover the fantasy you're living in and grow the fuck up"

[ppcock]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

you should have more mature relationships like marty, wherein you fuck three different girls that aren't interested in you in a week and then whine about it on the internet.

Yep.. That's fine by me.. My life is too busy and I dont want to settle down and I'm for sure not going to go find some hussie that wont even send me vag pics to jerk off to who lives in some other area code!

[cubed]

jesus christ, I think we finally pushed marty over the edge.

[NinjaBoy]

Marty, Courtney... both stop now.

Two major points:

Courtney, it's two months. This isn't a big deal at all at this point. It's not a long distance relationship, it's "waiting for two months kinda sucks, but whatever..."

Marty, no offence, but you can't come on here everyday looking for people to solve your relationship problems, then act like you know the answer when someone else asks similar questions. A lot of the problems you've had have seemed silly and superficial as well.

Not all guys are around from the school of "I'll fuck every girl I can find" the second they aren't being watched. If you consider that normal behavior you need to rethink things.

[rawb]

Originally Posted by NinjaBoy

Not all guys are around from the school of "I'll fuck every girl I can find" the second they aren't being watched.

ITS TRUE, SOME DUDES ARE MAD HOMELY LOOKING AND DONT HAVE THAT CHANCE

[ppcock]

To have a relationship that's long distance.. is stupid.
to think otherwise, you've got people issues.

I know some guys are like that.. but its certainly something to worry about.

Join an internet dating site if you lack those social skills of finding someone.

[NinjaBoy]

Originally Posted by ppcock

To have a relationship that's long distance.. is stupid.
to think otherwise, you've got people issues.

I know some guys are like that.. but its certainly something to worry about.

Join an internet dating site if you lack those social skills of finding someone.

Just so we are all clear for future threads: FNK is not a dating site.

[Carrie]

*popcorn*

[ppcock]

Originally Posted by NinjaBoy

Marty, Courtney... both stop now.

Two major points:

Courtney, it's two months. This isn't a big deal at all at this point. It's not a long distance relationship, it's "waiting for two months kinda sucks, but whatever..."

Marty, no offence, but you can't come on here everyday looking for people to solve your relationship problems, then act like you know the answer when someone else asks similar questions. A lot of the problems you've had have seemed silly and superficial as well.

Not all guys are around from the school of "I'll fuck every girl I can find" the second they aren't being watched. If you consider that normal behavior you need to rethink things.

No offense taken, Chris.

I know i've brought a few relationship issues to the board. But asking advice for THIS!?!??!

where the best advice you could ever ask for is a shot of reality with "don't do it!"

[ppcock]

Originally Posted by NinjaBoy

Just so we are all clear for future threads: FNK is not a dating site.

The only hot ones that post considerably anymore are myra, carrie and erin.

and to avoid any drama, they remain friends :)

but myra's ass will always blow my mind!

[brit]

Jesus christ ppcock, did you miss half the posts on here that say she's moving there in 2 months. No, offense but i see courtney finding a lasting, meaningful relationship long before you do. Just going on blog posts here.

[Carrie]

I think with every relationship, whether it's LD or not. People struggle and want advice from others that may have been in a similar situation.

That's why people post threads and ask questions. There will be someone that will think your question is stupid and there will be others that don't.

Courtney, take what you need from everyone's advice and in the end do what is best for your life and what makes you happy.

[brit]

Originally Posted by ppcock

The only hot ones that post considerably anymore are myra, carrie and erin.

and to avoid any drama, they remain friends :)

but myra's ass will always blow my mind!

ps. this is tacky

[ppcock]

hahahahaha.. It sure is!

I'm not going to lie!
Would I get good karma for putting your name there? Cause I personally liked the lindsay lohan joke.

[Carrie]

Originally Posted by ppcock

The only hot ones that post considerably anymore are myra, carrie and erin.

and to avoid any drama, they remain friends :)

but myra's ass will always blow my mind!

*blush*

[Courtney]

Originally Posted by cubed

Courts, I would have started that with something other than "YOU DON'T KNOW ME...", it's only going to fuel the fire.

=(

haha i know i knew that right after i posted it
oh well....
MAKE LOVE NOT WAR

lets hold hands ppcock

[rawb]

# whois doesmartythinkyouarehot.com

[matéo]

Originally Posted by Courtney

lets hold cock

KK....

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by ppcock

No offense taken, Chris.

I know i've brought a few relationship issues to the board. But asking advice for THIS!?!??!

where the best advice you could ever ask for is a shot of reality with "don't do it!"

Okay Mr. Relationship Expert. Sure thing.

Where'd you get that PhD in Psychology from again?

"Don't do it" is great to say and everything but honestly life isn't that simple.

Just because you've been through enough experience that you know better doesn't mean everybody else has, so just ease up already, because it's pretty blatantly obvious that you're not without your own relationship issues yourself.

Some people need to make their own mistakes. You can either tell them "JUST SAY NO" or you can educate them on the best way to keep themselves from getting hurt. One of these paths makes you look like a judgmental prick. Juss sayin'.

[stringbeans]

so many laughs from this

courtney its only 2 months. suppose you guys do the LD thing and he cheats on you... who cares because 1. wouldnt have worked out anyways and 2. ITS ONLY 2 MONTHS OF YOUR LIFE

suppose you guys do the LD thing and he doesnt cheat on you... awesome!

so where are the drawbacks cause i dont get it

[Courtney]

^cheers to ebbomega

[Courtney]

Originally Posted by stringbeans

so many laughs from this

courtney its only 2 months. suppose you guys do the LD thing and he cheats on you... who cares because 1. wouldnt have worked out anyways and 2. ITS ONLY 2 MONTHS OF YOUR LIFE

suppose you guys do the LD thing and he doesnt cheat on you... awesome!

so where are the drawbacks cause i dont get it

draw backs= no cuddle buddy for 2 whole months!

by the way guys in total it has been way longer than 2 months its just getting sooner to the date now, thats all

[cubed]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

Okay Mr. Relationship Expert. Sure thing.

Where'd you get that PhD in Psychology from again?

"Don't do it" is great to say and everything but honestly life isn't that simple.

Just because you've been through enough experience that you know better doesn't mean everybody else has, so just ease up already, because it's pretty blatantly obvious that you're not without your own relationship issues yourself.

Some people need to make their own mistakes. You can either tell them "JUST SAY NO" or you can educate them on the best way to keep themselves from getting hurt. One of these paths makes you look like a judgmental prick. Juss sayin'.

Fully agreed, a majority of long distance relationships are a mistake from the get go.

People need to go through the trials and tribulations them self.

It's their mistakes to make, not yours; ultimately those mistakes will only strengthen them as a person.