long distance relationships

[mojo]

^ that's what i think too

[Pussy*Kat]

Courtney, seriously, youre moving there, stressed about waiting two months then make a comment about how it might only work for a few months? WTF is wrong with you? You're a pretty girl, you seem smart (like 60% of the time) and for some reason youre having an issue finding a cuddle buddy to tide you over for 2 months. Why not instead of stressing about cuddling with someone for the next 60 days - you finish the papers/homework you state everyday you procrastinate on. It doesnt take a rocket scientist to realize there are about 100 things you could do to make time fly by.

Marty. Do you really think that in order to be in a long distance relationship you have to be fat, ugly, retarded (socially) ect. last time I checked I wasnt any of those things and I did it for a long time.

I dated my highschool sweetheart while I lived in Victoria (he lived here). Granted it didnt end well, but we loved eachother and it can be done. Every situation is different. If youre commited and make time to talk and see eachother then how far apart from eachother you are shouldnt have a huge impact.

Courtney you need to suck it up. You're over reacting. If you sat down and logically thought about all of this you would see its not that bad.

[Courtney]

I can't argue a pussy kat doll

[Erin]

Phone sex.

I've never been in one and I don't think I ever would - that's just me. It's only 2 months though, I'm sure you will survive! If you really like each other that much and you both honestly want to be together, it will happen. I honestly believe that if 2 people love each other and really want to be together there is nothing that can keep those 2 people apart. :)

Good luck!! :)

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by ppcock

This dude I know had a long distance relationship with some chick he met online.
They talked for 4 years, no pictures sent or anything.. which is freakin crazy!
He asked her to marry him, so he went down to texas to tie the knot. she took one look at him (he was bigger and ugly) and dumped him.

The worst thing he could ever do.. was tell us that story when we were all EXTREMELY intoxicated.

always wonder where those people meet online. like is there a centralized place where these people meet each other. i used to watch this show elove or something and it used to profile these types of situations with often very akward results.

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by SEAN!

always wonder where those people meet online. like is there a centralized place where these people meet each other. i used to watch this show elove or something and it used to profile these types of situations with often very akward results.

"THAT'S THE LAST TIME I MEET SOMEONE THROUGH WORLD OF WARCRAFT!"

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by ppcock

you've been in long distance relationships. Those relationships are a waste of time. They almost always never work out.
Now why do you think that is. What's the point of even getting into one? There's gotta be some options here.
And you can't really go with "All guys here are dumb" All guys anywhere are dumb.
More importantly, we're wolves. Having a long distance relationship means that either party can (and probably do) fuck other people... So if you're thinking you're going to be treated like a real person, you've got issues. Esp. if the guy is somewhat attractive, he's probably boning some girl right now and you'll never know.
The only way a long distance relationship will ever work is if the guy is fucking retarded, fat, ugly, has reallllllllllllllll low self esteem or lives under a rock.

You say you've been in more than one.. why didnt the first one work out? My guess is - BECAUSE IT'S A FREAKIN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

They're pointless, you've got issues if you can't find someone local.

You're right, I dont know you.. but from what I've seen you're just like every other girl in vancouver, filled with drama and immature.

You'll say I'm wrong here because all this is going way passed you.. but I've helped so many friends in similar situations that it's becoming so freakin retarded that my only assistance is saying "stop dreaming in your make believe bull shit world, uncover the fantasy you're living in and grow the fuck up"

next mufuckin dr phil right here yo!


marty screw video game development you could be a counsellour those guys make bank.

[Courtney]

ppcock that does make sene what your saying but if anyones cheating its me not him trust me
and im not but he just doesnt- hes good.....i know him :) and even if he does im ok with it
im not there and he has needs, as long as i dont know its fine
i told him to get with hoes....but u cant make a hoe a housewife
as long as he knows that im his girl thats fine....thats why we arent in a full on relationship cuz i dont want to not have sex one night if i feel like it

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by ppcock

The only hot ones that post considerably anymore are myra, carrie and erin.

and to avoid any drama, they remain friends :)

but myra's ass will always blow my mind!

fuck that i wanna fuck leah and jess too they still post right.

shit i thought i didn't like white girls.

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by ppcock

It's in there! I mentioned that more often than not, in this case it wasnt all bad.

It's hard to find someone worth settling down with... fuck, its even harder finding that RIGHT someone to have a long permanent life with and I have a feeling, it's just going to get worse.

more and more, day by day, it just becomes harder... even with my confidence levels at an all time high.. i'm pretty sure it'll be impossible to find the right one. I just don't think she exsists. But in no way am I going to close my heart out.
But I wont be eagerly finding her.

fuck that, be a man, close your heart out.

always thuggin' never luvin'

and now everyone knows the root cause of all my problems.

[ppcock]

Originally Posted by SEAN!

next mufuckin dr phil right here yo!


marty screw video game development you could be a counsellour those guys make bank.

If I do hypnotherapy, i can also take advantage of patients.

SCORE!

[dj_soo]

Originally Posted by SEAN!

always wonder where those people meet online. like is there a centralized place where these people meet each other. i used to watch this show elove or something and it used to profile these types of situations with often very akward results.

there's plenty of communities online that aren't location-based. Hell, there are plenty of people on this site that I've never met or hadn't met irl for years.

[baby-phat]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

"THAT'S THE LAST TIME I MEET SOMEONE THROUGH WORLD OF WARCRAFT!"

hehehehe... I actually know a couple who met via Lineage II (online RPG). She lived somewhere in the States and they had only met in person twice before she moved here to be with him. Now they're married and prob one of the happiest couples I've ever known. Kinda crazy, but hey worked for them. lol

[Tea]

Courtney you deserve a super great guy, and you will get him. We can't help who sticks in our minds near or far, big or small, but regardless of how the situation works out, i know some amazing dude is going to be lucky to have you one day.. and make you sooo consistently happy you're thread will just be filled with gushy, nice things yo say about him and your life together=p

..in the meantime, enjoy fnk...and yes! that was me you accidently txt'd :D

[ppcock]

Originally Posted by baby-phat

hehehehe... I actually know a couple who met via Lineage II (online RPG). She lived somewhere in the States and they had only met in person twice before she moved here to be with him. Now they're married and prob one of the happiest couples I've ever known. Kinda crazy, but hey worked for them. lol

ANother story, when I worked at EA, a lead told me this story. Since he worked a lot, his gf didn't like it, so he figured he'd get her the sims game so it'll take up her boredom. She got addicted and it was a happy relationship.
She then dumped the guy for someone she met on the sims.


Now, I laughed sooo hard at this... but, luckily, I couldnt feel bad for him because there was 8 other guys laughing just as hard.