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As for the degree of acceptance asian families have towards inter-"racial" relationships, it really varies from culture to culture. I personally don't know of very many Japanese families who have strongly opposed to their children marrying or dating interracially. In fact, I know a lot of gf's who really don't seek out Japanese guys and don't really desire to either. 
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Dec 17, 04
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i can't think of that many in korean circles either. but i remember feelng a vibe when i was a kid around korean mothers who married white men.. it seemed like everyone felt she sold out her nationality.. and was slowly being ostrasized for it. that was in hong kong though. when i moved here i felt asian people were pretty different... i definetly felt white-asian relationships were alot more accepted here but there are families who are strict about that shit... the ultra conservative families.. haha its a brutal dictatorship in some households. i wouldnt say its just racism, many asians are just really concerned about maintaining their old heritage and families unionizing together is a big thing. and being able to communicate is probably a big thing as well. and you felt like the bigger brother? haha wow thats gaaaaaangsta! j/p but i know what you mean... hehe thats too bad you musta been born too wise for your own good.. so i guess that means asian guys are stupider than white guys?
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Dec 18, 04
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wow interesting. in my case im totally attracted to the "thug life as bad as it gets" kind of caucasion guys. i say i can catagorized myself as a headstrong independent and smart gal.. but there's just something with the rebellious lifestyle of a different race that is just so attractive to me.. its not beautiful attractive.. its magnetic attraction. but i guess you can call it immaturity and in the end deep inside all i really want to do is change the bad boy into a good boy with my help.. i like helping.. but helping change a person isn't always a good thing. regarding the family thing. yes i do have to admit that the "meet the parents" part is prob the most difficult part to it all. ive told my parents straight up that im attracted to caucasion guys and not to be surprised if one showed up at the dinner table one day. i always imagine what the wedding woudl be like.."white ppl on one side of the aisle and asians on the other side". yikes.. hopefully there will be more of a blend. unfortuntely my mom has a stereotype for caucasion men... (aunt divorced with a caucasion man).. .so it will be extra hard to convince. but then again.. i would like to think that the man who i want to be with is in the end THE MAN I WANT TO BE WITH. he's the guy i have to spend the rest of my life with and sleep in the same bed with.. not my family/relatives. whoever's spreading this yellow fever virus..keep it spreading. ;)
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Dec 18, 04
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well couldnt say ive been there...done that....lol
for me im open to all types of girls, but as of now ill be with my girl for good
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Dec 18, 04
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When I was in Japan, there was little need for convincing, especially in Tokyo.
But I wasn't so sure that it was my looks so much as it was my novelty - my out of placeness, the fact that I looked different and couldn't speak Japanese. I think many of the women over there enjoyed the power being able to speak amongst themselves without my comprehension, show me around, take me to places. I was literally not able to fend for myself, so they enjoyed roll (play?) reversal. I'm not so much interested in from-the-motherland asian girls anymore; the communication thing gets bothersome really quick as you realize relationships are very difficult. 'Banana' girls, on the other hand, have all the things in common with me and all the petite goodness I need for a balanced diet. :171:
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Dec 18, 04
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Dec 18, 04
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my sister dated a japanese guy for a week, my mom came to ask me what was going on with her, I was just joking around so I told my mom that my sister had gotten married. and I shit you not, my mom started to cry. having an ultra conservative korean mother can be retarded sometimes.
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Dec 18, 04
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hahaha alotta korean parents have that vibe with japanese people.
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Dec 19, 04
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It is also possible that I'm just bossy. :D
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Dec 20, 04
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to me.. i think asian guys (well, and girls too) are too pampered by their parents and they become "soft" (for a lack of better terms) which gives them feminine as well as immature personalities. i'm not saying all asian guys are like that, but a large portion of them are.. well, from all that i've seen anyways.
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Dec 21, 04
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As for guys liking asian girls, it's perplexing to me: a tall, curvy blonde. I am the opposite of that petite, exotic asain girl physique. I used to be threatened by it, but now I'm not. I love me and I think I'm great. I do understand tho how some guys like a little girl they can pick up and throw around. And the prospect of mixed kids is HOT! But I'd hafta stop dating white dudes if I want some mixed kids. Hehe.
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Dec 23, 04
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ezactly. im with you on that, bevster.
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Dec 23, 04
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ezakly, bevster. im all for the infection!
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Dec 23, 04
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There's just something about those white boys *sigh* <3 <3 <3
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Dec 23, 04
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nev: matts part asian! I SWEAR!!!! lol
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Dec 23, 04
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Asian Ladys!
All i want to say is that there is a little rumor that i always here! the Asian girls know how sexually stimulate a man with great perfection! I think i need to experience this one day! :rave: :rave:
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