unreliable guys

[diva]

Originally Posted by Skitzo_Style

simple answer to this: DOUBLE WRAP IT!!!!

Wow, you're really fucking stupid. Double wrapping is not better. The friction between two latex condoms rubbing together increases the chances of one or both breaking.

[ppcock]

with all the preggers going around. I really hope that you kids have laid off the drugs and alchohol... if not...

you are so not ready to have a child

and

your kids are going to be retards.

[PwInCeSs]

i dont think anyone would be that stupid marty, well i hope not.
I was a drinker and a smoker befor i found out and quit both right away (well i had to slowly cut down then quit smoking) And i wasnt in to any 'rave' drugs at the time, altho i did smoke pot

[diva]

Originally Posted by PwInCeSs

Thats a little harsh dont you think?
What the hell would be your Reasoning to say that?

Because she was slagging someone for getting knocked up by accident, when she went out and did it on purpose. I think that's a hell of a lot dumber.

I dont think either girls are dumb, they both went through (or are going through) the almost 10 months of pregnancy(im almost halfway through and its no fucking walk in the park ill tell you that)

Am I supposed to give them a medal? I've worked with a lot of pregnant women and plan on spending a large majority of my life delivering babies, so I know how they're made. Last time I checked, it's easy for most 20somethings to get pregnant.

It's harder to get an education and become financially secure enough to actually support a child comfortably. So unless missy chrissy's pulling in at least 50k/year in a secure job, i think it was dumb of her to get pregnant.

edit: i also love how most of you ppl are missing the point of this thread entirely. this thread is about deadbeat dads. getting someone pregnant, then leaving them to support your child by herself, is the lowest thing any guy can do. i don't care that the guy in question has the IQ and motivation of a goldfish. So preface your post with a comment about not airing dirty laundry in public, then add your $0.02 about deadbeats.

[PwInCeSs]

Hey im not saying you should fucking applaud them. Calm down the tantrum meter a bit there. Both say they had Planned there pregnancies and both are going through with the situations. I admire my doctor i kno its not an easy job. I was just stating that going through the pregnancy isnt easy.
YEA GETTING PREGNANT is easy, i have said that so many times, i was on the shot and i got pregnant. It happens, but not all go through with it.
Props to you for planning to become a Nurse or doctor, i know its not easy... My moms a nurse, my cousins a delivering doctor and my other cousins a nurse in the OR. So i have heard all about the education and how its not easy. I Go to school aswell ok i do work hard at what i do. You dont need a education like yours to make alot of money you know. My fiance does well and he didnt go to school for what he does.
You still didnt explain why you specifically called Chrissy dumb.
Unless its your assumption about how much her and her bf make a year, because you obviously dont know. Just cause your in school to be in the medical field doesnt mean you know what its like to go through this, or that you have the right to say who is STABLE enough to have kids.

[diva]

Originally Posted by PwInCeSs

Hey im not saying you should fucking applaud them. Calm down the tantrum meter a bit there. Both say they had Planned there pregnancy's and both are going through with it. I admire my doctor i kno its not an easy job. I was just stating that going through the pregnancy isnt easy.
YEA GETTING PREGNANT is easy, i have said that so many times, i was on the shot and i got pregnant. It happens, but not all go through with it.
Props to you for planning to become a Nurse or doctor, i know its not easy... My moms a nurse, my cousins a delivering doctor and my other cousins a nurse in the OR. So i have heard all about the education and how its not easy. I Go to school aswell ok i do workhard at what i do. You dont need a education like your to make alot of money you know. My fiance does well and he didnt go to school for what he does.
You still didnt explain why you specifically called Chrissy dumb.
Unless its your assumption about how much her and her bf make a year, because you obviously dont know. Just cause your in school to be in the medial field doesnt mean you know what its like to go through this, or that you have the right to say who is STABLE enough to have kids.

I know that a person's level of education doesn't necessarily correlate to their income. If you're going to pop out a kid on purpose and you don't have an education (or work experience or whatever) that can get you a good job, you're being stupid. I called chrissy dumb because she was making fun of someone for getting pregnant by accident, when she CHOSE to get pregnant.

I don't care what anyone else thinks. I think that CHOOSING to get pregnant in your twenties, when you're not fiancially stable and have only known your partner for a few years is not only DUMB, but DUMBER than getting pregnant by accident.

There, did that clarify things for you?

[PwInCeSs]

Yes thankyou
thats all i wanted to know
I said the same thing that it was unfair of her to say that, being pregnant herself, same as it would have been wrong of me to say the girl was stupid.
got it?

[diva]

Originally Posted by PwInCeSs

Just cause your in school to be in the medial field doesnt mean you know what its like to go through this

No, but I do know that it's so hard to raise a kid that anyone who would CHOOSE to do so without being properly equipped (100% financially and emotionally) is DUMB.

[PwInCeSs]

Yes and thats common sense. Im adopted, given up by my birth mother for that very reason she was young, and well from what i have been told my birth father left when he found out she was pregnant. So my whole life i have grown up with that understanding. And its something we made sure we understood when we decied to keep our child. Although i dont believe in abortion for myself, so it would have been a hard situation. We know we can do it, financially, and emotionally and physically, and know how much this is what we want. Im sure Chrissy and her bf would have thought about it all aswell.

[baby-phat]

Originally Posted by diva

If missy chrissy's pregnancy was planned, then she's even dumber than the person who posted this thread.

You don't have to have money saved up or even be financially stable to raise your child well and in a happy, good home. If you seriously think that then you're the dumb one. Sure, I will admit that in many homes that this may not be the case- but at the same time there's just as many where it is. IMO, I feel it has alot to do with the 2 parents and sure money is a big issue especially when having kids but as long as you love them then you're going to strive to make life as good as you can, whether you have alot or a little.
For example.. When my mom found out she was pregnant with me her and my dad were not financially stable at all, and yet somehow they managed to raise me very well with not a lot of money or previously laid out plans.

[Tea]

Originally Posted by R Wellbelove

I guess you have no idea about what I do and why I do it. We were all born with a weakness and a gift... my challenge has always been spelling and grammar. Ive probly worked 10X harder in that area then you ever have.
I work with kids who have special needs. Becuase of my struggle I know what its like and can work much better with kids than those who find spelling easy.

As for getting my teaching degree ill probly have to go through the silvan learning centre and work even harder when it comes to english classes. Something most ppl give up on.

PS: I was hired by one of my collage teachers and given one of the best reffernce letters ive ever receive stating my excelent work done in a highschool learning centre to help kids in regular grade 8-12 Science, SS, Math, and English.

PPS: You think I havnt bothered Myles about getting spell check on fnk?

I'm a little out of the loop with threads but i just needed to tell you Rhia, i think you are amazing and such an inspiration to any person who has had to deal with a any kind of disability or disadvantage. In my family three out four have learning disabilities, my brothers and sister have all struggled and seeing them work harder to get to a place it takes other no time at all to reach - is the most beautiful thing. You should only be SO proud of yourself and all you've overcome and acomplished.

Personally, it really bothers me when ppl (any person) attacks spelling and grammer on FnK. It's not school, it's the internet and i would like to think most of us dont CARE that much to edit our work. Clearly, i don't. But if people want to be ignorant and think we are not capable of writing well then that's their silly asumption, isn't it?

It's a low blow. I would never target someone's disability for a laugh.
Cruel with a capital C.

<3

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Originally Posted by diva

No, but I do know that it's so hard to raise a kid that anyone who would CHOOSE to do so without being properly equipped (100% financially and emotionally) is DUMB.

hahahahaha!youre funny!

having children is like getting married...THERES NEVER A GOOD FUCKING TIME!

no one is ever equipped 100% financially(unless youre donal trump) and certainly not emotionally.Its really cute that you think that though:)Makes you look very naieve,it doesnt suit you though cuz youre usually pretty smrt.


hahahahahahahahahaa.wow.

book smart and life dumb apparently.

[Bitchin]

Originally Posted by Blunted

shhhh!!! the pony might hear you :(

:O

YOU PLAYER!!!!!

[Bitchin]

Originally Posted by diva

It's harder to get an education and become financially secure enough to actually support a child comfortably. So unless missy chrissy's pulling in at least 50k/year in a secure job, i think it was dumb of her to get pregnant.

Agreed.

Not just to missy, but to all girls that have got pregnant[on purpose or not] and aren't finacially stable.
That's not fair to the child.

[tiedye]

jesus fuck. . missy has a significant other. You make it sound like she's doing it on her own. My parents raised 6 of us off of shitty jobs and we all turned out aok. 50k was all my parents made in a year put together. Everyone says it's really expensive to raise children. Well it's not that costly when they're babies.. and maybe instead of buying them nice clothes and flashy toys when they're toddlers, you just encourage more intelligent activities. Teach them to read at an early age, get them a little piano or some bongos.. hell, buy them a fucking yo-yo. I STILL play with yo-yos! Missy, and all the other pregnant girls, I'm sure your babies will be happy and healthy.

[diva]

Originally Posted by ~*goddessa*~

hahahahaha!youre funny!

having children is like getting married...THERES NEVER A GOOD FUCKING TIME!

no one is ever equipped 100% financially(unless youre donal trump) and certainly not emotionally.Its really cute that you think that though:)Makes you look very naieve,it doesnt suit you though cuz youre usually pretty smrt.


hahahahahahahahahaa.wow.

book smart and life dumb apparently.

this is coming from a girl who got knocked up, yet continues to smoke, poisoning her unborn child with nicotine on a daily basis.

edit: and yeah, i've had more life experience than most ppl, but i'll be the first to admit that i'm life dumb. i'm only 23 years old! i've got a lot of learning and growing up to do before i can even consider being responsible enough for another human being. that's why i'm having a hard time believing that young girls who choose to get pregnant are making intelligent decisions.

[miSsy_chriSsy]

Originally Posted by tiedye

jesus fuck. . missy has a significant other. You make it sound like she's doing it on her own. My parents raised 6 of us off of shitty jobs and we all turned out aok. 50k was all my parents made in a year put together. Everyone says it's really expensive to raise children. Well it's not that costly when they're babies.. and maybe instead of buying them nice clothes and flashy toys when they're toddlers, you just encourage more intelligent activities. Teach them to read at an early age, get them a little piano or some bongos.. hell, buy them a fucking yo-yo. I STILL play with yo-yos! Missy, and all the other pregnant girls, I'm sure your babies will be happy and healthy.

Amen, Bro! <3

[Scarface]

Abortion is rad.

[PwInCeSs]

Originally Posted by tiedye

jesus fuck. . missy has a significant other. You make it sound like she's doing it on her own. My parents raised 6 of us off of shitty jobs and we all turned out aok. 50k was all my parents made in a year put together. Everyone says it's really expensive to raise children. Well it's not that costly when they're babies.. and maybe instead of buying them nice clothes and flashy toys when they're toddlers, you just encourage more intelligent activities. Teach them to read at an early age, get them a little piano or some bongos.. hell, buy them a fucking yo-yo. I STILL play with yo-yos! Missy, and all the other pregnant girls, I'm sure your babies will be happy and healthy.

Exactly
Its about the life you give your children not the amount you spend on them! And that with or without a significant other i might add.
Yes in some ways the more money you have the easier it can be, but money isnt all that matters.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Originally Posted by diva

this is coming from a girl who got knocked up, yet continues to smoke, poisoning her unborn child with nicotine on a daily basis.

edit: and yeah, i've had more life experience than most ppl, but i'll be the first to admit that i'm life dumb. i'm only 23 years old! i've got a lot of learning and growing up to do before i can even consider being responsible enough for another human being. that's why i'm having a hard time believing that young girls who choose to get pregnant are making intelligent decisions.

so then,if youve got alot of growing up to do and generally know fuck all about life...especially about pregnancy and rearing children effectively,why dont you keep your mouth shut and your ears and eyes open?Maybe you`ll learn something instead of remaining ignorant by making general statements that generally arent true and dont apply to 95% of the people in the real world?

A piece of humble pie might do ya good too :)

[Ryan Ross]

I fucking love pie!

[tiedye]

even more than cakes? yeah.. I guess I agree with you. there are just so many things you can make into pies. you can't make a turkey cake. or apple or pumpkin cake. fuck cake. fuck it to hell.

[Bitchin]

Originally Posted by Blunted

I fucking love pie!

Whats your favortie....?

mines either pumkin or rhubarb!

[Chewy]

strawberry rhubarb is fuckin tasty

[Ryan Ross]

I love the apple personally, such a classic!