Girls! Stop wasting your darn time!!

[Grapes]

A real man makes you the apple of his eye, the CORE of his WORLD. He makes you feel like the most important thing to him is YOU.

Maybe a real man makes develops this kind of bond, with the right girl, after an extended period of dating and romance.

A person who is doing this within 2 weeks would strike me as a real melodramatic, hyper-emotional headcase. Of a man.

But hey, that's just me.

[t-skywalker]

i think that this is true aswell. i see so many of my friends go thru all these relationships and be so misserable and repeate the same things over and over. i even did it when i was in relationships. if u find ur self being upset about the same thing over and over again and u have talked to the male/female of ur life(and they havent tried to make it better) then maybe they arent the right person for u. relationships take work but not so much work that ur more misserable than happy. =) but i have alot of friends that are happy and so adorable to see together...gives me hope for my future:D

[robyn]

~~~missy chrissy~*~*~ i do not appreciate your patronizing karma.

[~Sc@ndelu$~]

Thank god i also don't have to deal with any of this with my bf either :)

Anyways if some slut called my bf,... I'd make sure that i was the one returning her phone call

[Liqwid]

Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

ah that makes 3 bad karma boxes all from guys.
and 5 good karma boxes all from girls.

lolol <3

well i got good, and i am 23....

[miSsy_chriSsy]

dalyn re: your karma

100% i shouldn't have specified gender.

I will make sure i'm more general next time <3

[Liqwid]

lol....and sexuallity....

the Mo's understand.

[baby-phat]

Originally Posted by ~Sc@ndelu$~

Anyways if some slut called my bf,... I'd make sure that i was the one returning her phone call

bwahaha.. Margie, I love you!

[~Sc@ndelu$~]

Originally Posted by baby-phat

bwahaha.. Margie, I love you!

Oh buddy... I love u too :)

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by Avana

Self-respect.

Girls that stay with the jerks, lack the esteem to up and leave, cause they think they might not do better. Same as the girl who goes home from the bar with a guy cause she thinks it will make her love them.

I see your point but I think it's going on a different tangent than this whole thread.

It kind of implies that guys having female friends when they have a girlfriend =/= jerks if it bothers the girl

honestly, let's face it, a guy could do ABSOLUTELY nothing to make his gf feel insecure, and his female friends could also be doing NOTHING inappropriate and a lot of girls will still feel insecure about it no matter what. That shouldn't necessarily be an ultimatium for a relationship to end if its what is constantly causing fights, it should be something where the girl looks inside herself to figure out why it is she's so insecure and really deal with those issues.

I'll say it again, as females, we can all admit we have an extrordinary ability to create something out of nothing and it happens a lot, even to the best of us.

[veN]

Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

ah that makes 3 bad karma boxes all from guys.
and 5 good karma boxes all from girls.

lolol <3

I could be wrong, but I figure the original meaning of your post is so far removed now from what some people are "contributing" to the discussion. You were talking about girls who lack the self-resepect to cut loose from a relationship with a guy who gives her reasonable cause to doubt his commitment to her. Right? If so then YES. You'd think that was a no-brainer, but I see some ladies just haven't learned to love themselves enough yet.

Insecure bitches is an entirely different conversation, no?

[Gusto]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

I see your point but I think it's going on a different tangent than this whole thread.

It kind of implies that guys having female friends when they have a girlfriend =/= jerks if it bothers the girl

honestly, let's face it, a guy could do ABSOLUTELY nothing to make his gf feel insecure, and his female friends could also be doing NOTHING inappropriate and a lot of girls will still feel insecure about it no matter what. That shouldn't necessarily be an ultimatium for a relationship to end if its what is constantly causing fights, it should be something where the girl looks inside herself to figure out why it is she's so insecure and really deal with those issues.

I'll say it again, as females, we can all admit we have an extrordinary ability to create something out of nothing and it happens a lot, even to the best of us.

myra, do you just take my posts and add more words or are we the same person?

[soma]

Originally Posted by Avana

Self-respect.

Girls that stay with the jerks, lack the esteem to up and leave, cause they think they might not do better. Same as the girl who goes home from the bar with a guy cause she thinks it will make her love them.

If you can't respect yourself you shouldn't be dating ANYONE.

[Scarface]

Originally Posted by Avana

Same as the girl who goes home from the bar with a guy cause she thinks it will make her love them.

I think your're selling your gender a bit short.... no girl is that naive.

[Prissypants]

My general rule is that if a partner of mine tells me to give up one of my friends for whatever reason then that partner is out the door. If they are uncomfortable around that person, that's cool, I just won't bring that person by. As soon as anyone starts that possessive crap though, instant breakup. I would never ask for my partner to stop hanging out with someone just cause I may be a little insecure around that person.

Originally Posted by Scarface

I think your're selling your gender a bit short.... no girl is that naive.

You would be surprised. I am not making a generalization. I know more than a handful of girls that have said to me in the past that they were upset that the guy they went home with from the bar never called.

[mapleleaf4ever]

Originally Posted by dj_soo

^ your buddy should dump that girl.

seriously - why do people stay in relationships like that?

I've asked Girls that before... and it's come down to the 'comfort factor'. FUCK THE COMFORT FACTOR! You're not happy, find someone who isn't a Shitbrick and be fucking Happy. Deal with being Single for a bit until you get the Guy/Girl that is better for you.

JEEEEZUS.

[Kraig]

Originally Posted by decypher

Some of my bestfriends are girls. I think it's unreasonable for someone to expect i'd never to see them again or even talk to them on msn lol wtf.

If you trust him, you trust him. If you don't, you don't.

That is exactly what it comes down too... TRUST.

[TrixX]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

honestly, let's face it, a guy could do ABSOLUTELY nothing to make his gf feel insecure, and his female friends could also be doing NOTHING inappropriate and a lot of girls will still feel insecure about it no matter what. That shouldn't necessarily be an ultimatium for a relationship to end if its what is constantly causing fights, it should be something where the girl looks inside herself to figure out why it is she's so insecure and really deal with those issues.

<3

smart girl!!!!!!

[miSsy_chriSsy]

^ LOL

[miss.myra]

huh? am I not smart? :( :( :(

[miSsy_chriSsy]

^ no no, hun

she's just trying to make this post all about her,
hinting shit to me in the meantime, by using quotes from your posts.
When this has nothing to do with her, or the reason why we don't talk to her anymore :)

... and my whole point in the beginning, is smart girls, with good heads on their shoulders, being taken to a point of tears on numerous occasions, because they aren't being treated the way they deserve.

Now it's strayed so far, I don't even know what the point of this is anymore!

[miss.myra]

things tend to go off topic, but I find that a lot of the time in loosely related tangents that a lot of good points are brought up.

Let's just start talking about cupcakes! or waffles!

mmmmm.

Originally Posted by miss.myra

things tend to go off topic, but I find that a lot of the time in loosely related tangents that a lot of good points are brought up.

Let's just start talking about cupcakes! or waffles!

mmmmm.

or how horizontal stripes shouldn't be worn by some people!

[miSsy_chriSsy]

muthafucking waffles!!!!

sooo good!