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Originally Posted by Heffy
It seems that for some strange reason, girls that i am involved with seem to become attached really quickly. I, being a commitment-phobe, usually end things after a month or two. This is because I don't want anyone to get hurt, but no matter how hard I try, I always endup with a sobbing, screaming girl and I feel bad.
Now I know that i'm not the first guy to break hearts, and i know that its bound to happen in the "game" that is relationships no matter how casual they may be.
I just broke up with my g/f because of several reasons, mainly that i know shes going back to germany in may, and i could sense that we were getting pretty close. Basically we were setting ourselves up for a big let down. Not only that, but i realized that i am not over my last significant relationship.
I guess it sucks feeling bad about doing the right thing...
anyone know what i mean? or am i just some crazy emo bastard? :p
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only because i know you and i know who ur ex g/f, who ur not over. im going to tell you hunny....
your not a jerk, u are just not over your ex. simple. u cant move on and date new ppl till you are over a person. why rebounds happen. ur only going to keep hurting woman till you get over her. so maybe its time u do what i did. take a few months or even a few years like me lol, and have everett selfish cleansing time. u cant replace ur ex. you can only move on and find something new. which is something, it seems your trying to do. possibly ur lonely or your not use to being alone? or you dont know what to do with your self? this is why woman get hurt they are ready for something new but dont realize your heart is elsewhere.
sadly u have a long road to recovery with your ex..i know this cause i know your heart is still with her. good luck hun.
to be honest stop dating these girls that you know u can committ to. its not fair for them, unless you tell them right away that nothing will ever come out of it and they are ok with it. Truth is always the best solution. besides it saves u alot of drama in the end.