Being a heartbreaker with a conscience...

[Silverwinged]

Originally Posted by Heffy

speaking of which... maybe you should buy one... does anyone else smell fish? :P

i think im going to need some recovery time after that mad diss.
someone tell me when i can stop crying ok?

EDIT: at least im not nick named anything to do with livestock.

ps: jess... HAHAHAH GENTLE. THAT WAS GOLD.

[wishbone]

Originally Posted by Silverwinged

i think im going to need some recovery time after that mad diss.
someone tell me when i can stop crying ok?

PLZ DONT CRY HERE'S HOUSE BEING SILLY

[wishbone]

ps:
Heffy I have had other people pledge towards buying you a book to improve yourself. Act today! Don't delay!

[djmarkpaul]

Originally Posted by Heffy

^^ actually i was fat in high school. So they called me a Heifer. it just turned into Heff.. and then eventually Heffy.

and thank you for pointing your finger at everyone so that we know how "infantile" we are. Had you not posted, we would still be taking ourselves seriously.

Cheers! :)

Actually I didnt name names at all as to not finger point and single out anyone in general, but congrats on stepping up and showing us all you felt guilty enough.

Atleast you're not fat now, you're just shallow.

[Heffy]

^^
I know i'm shallow.


Let's see if this thread can make it to page 7!!!

C'mon haters, i know you can do it!

[B-rizzo]

to quote carrie

"posting to raise my post count"

and well also to help heffy push to page 7!

[FireWire]

Heffy, buds - what's going on? You know that your cocky, smartass-self is going to have smarten up eventually if you will want to keep at least one steady relationship in your life, right? You can't be leading girls on for the rest of your life - someday that's simply gotta stop.

I just don't see you admitting to the mistake you made in your first post... other than aggravating the situation even more. Why don't you just STOP, take a DEEP breath, and gather the COURAGE to admit that you are WRONG.

Post an apology, and swear to God that you won't be a jerk to girls ever again (ahem, I mean YOUR type of jerk, not the adventurous one that chicks totally dig). That's what I demand of you. God demands a lot more, but you will find that out the hard way if you don't reconsider your actions as soon as possible...

[stabmyhead]

Heffy,

My word of advice: Get over yourself. It seems like you have a lot of issues you need to work out before you can get into a relationship again, learn to man up and be a stronger man. Stick with jerking off, you're only "hurting" yourself that way.

[wishbone]

YA, LISTEN TO MY STALKEE

[Heffy]

This is dope. You all think you know what you're talking about. LOL x 1,000,000!! :D

seriously, "get over myself"? HA HA HA HA

and FireWire...
"Why don't you just STOP, take a DEEP breath, and gather the COURAGE to admit that you are WRONG"
so what you're saying is that I should have waited until I knew she REALLY liked me, then broken her heart? I don't see how being proactive in trying to preserve somone else's feelings is "WRONG".... but thats ok, i mean, you are obviously some sort of authority on relationships, and how one SHOULD act. So I apreciate your attempt to enlighten me.

The long and short of it is. Everyone in this thread claims to know exactly what they are talking about. How relationships "should" be, and how I "should" act. Well newsflash, relationships of all manners between all people are completly different, and there are NO rules. ALL's fair in love and war. I was simply stating that i felt bad about doing the right thing.

If you disagree with me. That's fine.

But if your just being a hater, sitting on your high horse, being condescending. Go fuck yourself with something sharp :)

Oh, and newsflash ppl. I patched everything up, now we're FTF so its all good. :D

[pinkpanther]

Originally Posted by Sarah...

Its hard being a playa?.............

God, you probably put some huge love front on to the ladies then dismiss as soon as she falls for you, just the right time for them to get attached and hence get upset with your inconsistance..................you feel bad? yeah righht, It's AN EGO BOOST....or as you say "game".........lot of people have done it, most without knowing....but your still a dork who thinks he's hot ...be a man, don't start something with someone unless you let them know that from the beginning that your afraid of commitment or whatever....then you might not "feel bad" and then rant about it...

wow this is right on.

You sound exactly like my ex...we start getting close and he runs the other way. basicly i heard the same couple sentences over and over again the last bit of our relationship: "this is too much", "im so scared", "i cant handle this" etc. Now he "loves me" but "cant" be tied down and yet wont let me move on. fucking man up before you decide to take the leap into a relationship.

[wishbone]

Originally Posted by Heffy

This is dope. You all think you know what you're talking about. LOL x 1,000,000!! :D

seriously, "get over myself"? HA HA HA HA

and FireWire...
"Why don't you just STOP, take a DEEP breath, and gather the COURAGE to admit that you are WRONG"
so what you're saying is that I should have waited until I knew she REALLY liked me, then broken her heart? I don't see how being proactive in trying to preserve somone else's feelings is "WRONG".... but thats ok, i mean, you are obviously some sort of authority on relationships, and how one SHOULD act. So I apreciate your attempt to enlighten me.

The long and short of it is. Everyone in this thread claims to know exactly what they are talking about. How relationships "should" be, and how I "should" act. Well newsflash, relationships of all manners between all people are completly different, and there are NO rules. ALL's fair in love and war. I was simply stating that i felt bad about doing the right thing.

If you disagree with me. That's fine.

But if your just being a hater, sitting on your high horse, being condescending. Go fuck yourself with something sharp :)

Oh, and newsflash ppl. I patched everything up, now we're FTF so its all good. :D

You know, when a few people disagree with you, one can stand their ground and say "quit hating, quit hating"...but when EVERYONE sees things opposite to you, don't you think that maaaybe the general population (the competent judges, if you will) might have some grounds?

[FireWire]

Originally Posted by Heffy

and FireWire...
"Why don't you just STOP, take a DEEP breath, and gather the COURAGE to admit that you are WRONG"
so what you're saying is that I should have waited until I knew she REALLY liked me, then broken her heart? I don't see how being proactive in trying to preserve somone else's feelings is "WRONG".... but thats ok, i mean, you are obviously some sort of authority on relationships, and how one SHOULD act. So I apreciate your attempt to enlighten me.

Two famous quotes come to mind... first one:

"Good advice is always certain to be ignored, but that's no reason not to give it."

We all tried.


Second one:

"He only profits from praise who values criticism."

In this case, criticism applies to you... but not the profiting from praise part.

Originally Posted by Heffy

Oh, and newsflash ppl. I patched everything up, now we're FTF so its all good. :D

Somehow people like you ALWAYS end up being remorseful hole patchers...

[B-rizzo]

must....get.....to...page..... 7......

[nabs]

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[Revolver]

Originally Posted by mekim

woohoo! some drug warrior thinks i'm a douche!

how could i not take that golden opportunity to then make fun of your "mental expansions through the use of various psychadelic drugs"? hint: most of us call that getting wasted.

Yes. I am a FIRM believer in the sacred use of entheogens and the mental expansions they provide.Especially in a ceremonial setting.That hardly makes me a drug warrior or a space case. I wear a suit and tie everyday to work and hold fairly conservative social views especially as i get older and have traveled to as many places as i have been. I understand why you would make a statement like that....you simply dont know, and used it as a easy cheap shot. but thats ok cause i dont take offence to it. i am extremely proud of my experiences in south america over the past two years and what ive learned from the many shamans and the many fascinating people i have met and sat in ceremony with. many of whom are leading phd anthropologists,psycologists,authors,not ed researchers,medical doctors,professionals and other media luminaires....people from all walks and every spectrum of life.

i must make note of a group of intellects from UBC called the TAMS society that i met at the conference this year in peru. these are full on phd students from all types of academic disciplines paying close attention to sacred entheogenic use.

when i speak of entheogens i almost exclusively talk of ayahuasca and its tremendous healing properties. i sit in ceremonies only once a year. and only when in the amazon. up here i dont do much. ive never evan taken LSD before.

it gose far beyond your, or ANYONES, notion of just getting wasted. it would be a shame for you, or anyone else, to dismiss it all as simply that. and thats
the only reason i choose to respond.

www.ayahuasca.com

[ebbomega]

Seriously, guys, this is getting ridiculous.

Who's idea was it to bring drugs into this mess? Again, something along the "Every FNKer guilty of in some way" lines.

You guys are just hating for the sake of hating.

WHERE'S THE REAL HATE GUYS? NONE OF THIS IMITATION HATE ACTION ALRIGHT?

[tiedye]

I however both uphold similar beliefs to Revolver about entheogens as well as that of a chemical commando!

[decypher]

>mekim

Leave it to the naive to trivialize something that they don't understand at all.

[Heffy]

Originally Posted by wishbone

You know, when a few people disagree with you, one can stand their ground and say "quit hating, quit hating"...but when EVERYONE sees things opposite to you, don't you think that maaaybe the general population (the competent judges, if you will) might have some grounds?

Competent judges as you put it, would not be wasting their time arguing on an internet forum. Myself included. So on that note.

:p


lets see how many pages of fruitless arguing we can accumulate!

[-evil-duerr-]

my cat's breath smells like cat food

[wishbone]

Originally Posted by Heffy

Competent judges as you put it, would not be wasting their time arguing on an internet forum. Myself included. So on that note.

:p


lets see how many pages of fruitless arguing we can accumulate!

you're misinterpretting the term competent judges. They're anyone who've been in similar situations. They can exist on the internet. If you're trying to insinuate that people on FNK are of lower standard, well you're sure as hell the mascot in that simile, but I don't think that's your point.

....is it?

edit:
and i was serious about the amazon wishlist. I want to laugh at shit you post, not laugh at you. I'll fucking buy you a book. Or Book-on-Tape if that's more your speed.

[mekim]

Originally Posted by decypher

>mekim

Leave it to the naive to trivialize something that they don't understand at all.

lol, i've been on more voyages through more mindscapes than you would believe. i've also come to the knowledge that it's just drugs and if you can't reach those realizations that are imparted without the drugs, you're just getting wasted.

[wishbone]

I like you, mekim. karma.

[djmarkpaul]

Originally Posted by mekim

lol, i've been on more voyages through more mindscapes than you would believe. i've also come to the knowledge that it's just drugs and if you can't reach those realizations that are imparted without the drugs, you're just getting wasted.

Yeah, that's not painting things with a broad brush at all.

It reads alright, but reality is much more a subtler shade of grey.

I'd hardly call facing death gettin wasted, but hey if you party like the late Chris Farley it might be the closest you'll get.

Now back to the matter at hand:

Heffy...is it true asshole guys get laid the most?