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View Poll Results: Sex on the first date
Yes 16 16.16%
No 22 22.22%
Depends on the person 51 51.52%
I've never been on a date 10 10.10%
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  #51 (permalink)  
Old Mar 11, 04
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BOOYA!

i wish i could change my vote to yes.
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Old Mar 11, 04
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I agree with what Crazy Dave said before about sex and love.

I think it's good to separate the two sometimes. Sex stuff is good sometimes just for relieving tension and having fun. You don't need to be in love with the person for it to be good. Although, yes, being in love does make it more special and nice and good and all that fuzzy stuff that everyone likes. But everyone likes sex too.

So i say, yes, to sex on the first date, if the person is right and things are going well.

Does anyone else have friends that they just fool around with sometimes? Like, there's no history beyond that, you're just friends with the occasional casual fling?
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Old Mar 11, 04
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BOOYA!

i wish i could change my vote to yes.

Too bad those votes are contractually binding.
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Old Mar 11, 04
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Too bad those votes are contractually binding.
it's a sad sad internet world.

and what's with that sidekick guy interrupting our conversation?
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Old Mar 11, 04
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Old Mar 11, 04
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Hey i can interupt as much as i want.

Plus, i didn't realize there was a 'conversation' going on.

Crookedking, as always, i bow to you. please accept my humblest apologies.
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Hey i can interupt as much as i want.

Plus, i didn't realize there was a 'conversation' going on.

Crookedking, as always, i bow to you. please accept my humblest apologies.
your apologies are accepted.

and crazy dave...that kid looks like one of my regular cyber lovers.
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Old Mar 11, 04
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Hey i can interupt as much as i want.
Dude, I'm trying to hook it up here.
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Old Mar 11, 04
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yeah man...her soil is fertile and she needs to have it planted. i just hope there are no birds to eat the seed :017:
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Old Mar 11, 04
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robyn i'm sorry.

Plug away boys and girls, plug away...
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Old Mar 11, 04
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i just hope there are no birds to eat the seed :017:
...or stinging bees of impotence.
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not only would that ruin our plans of riches and solving world hunger, but it would hurt too :toasted:
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Old Mar 11, 04
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COCK BLOCK
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Old Mar 11, 04
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I've had sex with every woman i've ever dated the first night I met them.
So, yeah.
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I've had sex with every woman i've ever dated the first night I met them.
So, yeah.
what's your magic number?
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Old Mar 11, 04
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I'd never want a girl who gives it up on the first date, because there's a real good chance she'll sleep with some dude she meets while you're going out with her.

I'd want to know the person pretty well first. If it's someone you already know, then sex earlier is okay, but if it's someone you've just met, goddamn, take your time.
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Old Mar 11, 04
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Being married or just special?
Both
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Old Mar 11, 04
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^^Okay, I can see your point with wanting to know the person well before sleeping with them...but i'm not so sure about the connection between sex on the first date and cheating on someone. I don't think that a girl having sex on the first date is an indication that she will cheat later on. Unless of course she was cheating on her present boyfriend with you.
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Old Mar 11, 04
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True, there's not really a direct connection because it is a different moral choice. But I think it definitely increases the chances, until the relationship reaches a more serious level (and if, as someone who enjoys casual sex enough to have sex on the first night probably does not want a serious relationship).

Basically, I think if you're looking for an actual relationship, waiting longer is important, but if you're not looking for Mr or Ms Right, then it's less important. In my opinion.

I guess what I'm saying is.. the more you like the person, the longer you should be waiting (to a point).
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Old Mar 11, 04
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^^makes sense to me. And i'm not looking for Mr/Mrs Right at the moment, so i suppose i'm in the 'casual, sex on the first date is fine' kind of frame of mind. But, yeah, if i wanted to build a more meaningful relationship with someone, then i would probably opt not to go full out on the first date.
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Old Mar 11, 04
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so does anal count as sex?
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Old Mar 11, 04
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only on tuesdays dave....only on tuesdays.
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Old Mar 12, 04
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Originally posted by Sidekick
Does anyone else have friends that they just fool around with sometimes? Like, there's no history beyond that, you're just friends with the occasional casual fling?
I kinda have a booty call... every once in a while, we will call each other up, he will drive down from up the island, we will smoke a bunch of pot, hang out for the day, and then go have some great sex...

It's a lot of fun.... friends with benifits can definatly be a bonus...

Although, I do preffer relationships for the most part... when I can find someone that can handle the twisted way I deal with relationships...
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Old Mar 12, 04
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so does anal count as sex?
I figure if what you are doing contains the word sex, it counts as sex....
Vaginal, anal, oral, and my personal favorite SKULL FUCKING!

lol
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Old Mar 12, 04
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Am I the only person here who actually thinks dates are fun?
dates are dope! as long as your date is funny, it's all good.

i more like going on friend dates, i dunno. maybe i'm just starting to get creeped out with guys. my idea of best date ever..

drinkin 40s or hard liquor in the park then going to catch a movie then SUSHI!!! fuck yeah

if there were more people down witht hat shit i'd go on more dates
boooyeaaaaaahahah

oh and crookedking& robyn, i want in on your panda plan. just don't feed me to them aight? maybe we could go on dates and eat starving african children sushi, stead of the normal stuff
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