Sex on the first date?

[Jess_C]

First of all, I don't see it as a huge ordeal having sex on a first date because sometimes you can't help it. We're young and might as well have some fun (as long as you're safe about it) if you aren't looking for a relationship. Yes, the fuk friends is great too...because it's never awkward and you know what each other likes (which makes it even better) and there's never drama! I wouldn't say have sex with the person if you are interested in having a relationship though and definately don't let the guy stick it up the ass without expecting no phone call back! I think it all boils down to how comfortable you are with yourself and your sexuality and as long as you are safe! TO EACH THEIR OWN

[Aki]

Originally Posted by MistressSpankME

Of course I know that, I was just trying to say that not everyones way of thinking has.

don't get offensive, wasn't directing it at you
just stating a point

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by Lunch Box

yes however it is socially acceptable for a man to be a "who-er" it all has to do with the fact that teh only purpose man scientifically has is to "spread his seed" the woman on the other hand is only there to produce children... so it is in turn ok for a guy to go out and bone chicks... if a woman has sex without producing children her fertility is questioned... the mans is not

It might be socially acceptable for a man to be a who-er. However, I don't want to pound a slut.

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by gslse

Man who-ers! lol! I do agree though, Rhianna. Dude I used to work with prominantly spoke of his 200+ conquests. Definate man who-er. lol, again! I usually call 'em "male slots."
How come u don't do dates?

I guess I would go on a date. It's just never happend that way. I kept running in to my current boyfriend at raves. Then we went drunken camping and things just kind of took off from there.

[jax0r]

i'll have sex on a first date, totally. I've never been on an official "date" but just hangin' out for the first time, if i feel attracted to them i jump'em.

i find waiting to be totally borring... i like to see people at their most vonerable moments right off the bat, and in my experience it makes things run more smoothly... plus it really sucks when you think you really like someone and then they SUCK in bed (in a bad way...)

[MistressSpankME]

Originally Posted by Aki

don't get offensive, wasn't directing it at you
just stating a point

Haha, I wasn't getting offensive actually, sorry if it sounded like it. I was just stating a point too! (and making sure that no one thought I actually looked at the subject that way).

[Jen-E-03]

No, I wouldn't have sex on the first date. IMO its a lil skanky. I think keepin clothes on on the first date is a good idea.

[Pussy_Kat]

But jen
what if u click with the person just right
and what if u were friends before u started dating
and what if uve known him FOREVER
since childhood
theres soo many reasons why u shouldnt have sex on the first date
but so many situations that could lead u to do it too

[LiKwID_TrAnCe]

Sex on the first date??? Well I don't go out on dates so that doesn't matter, as long as you don't sleep around with everyone you bumb into I guess it's okay causesex is fun :) Yeah

[robyn]

Originally Posted by Pussy_Kat

But jen
what if u click with the person just right
and what if u were friends before u started dating
and what if uve known him FOREVER
since childhood

Blah, blah, blah... What if you just feel like fucking?!?!

[Pussy_Kat]

thast a good point to
when u think about it
sex is sex

[robyn]

Originally Posted by Pussy_Kat

thast a good point to
when u think about it
sex is sex

I'm usually no longer thinking at that point.

[Pussy_Kat]

hummm
good point
i wish i could send u karma for being my hero

[Akeel]

i'm not a playa i just fuck a lot.

reprazent.

[crackdragon]

meh, if your both in the mood why not?

[MrDFrost]

my only words of wisdom...play smart....USE CONDOMS!!! we've got enough dumb children running around ;) j/k.....

[rav3r gurl]

nu uh. i like dates. it's just a matter of getting them more often. and its especially great when the guy knows how to treat you.

[Akeel]

^
tied up in the backseat of an 79 camaro!

whut whut!

[SteveO13]

Well See this is a tuffy,
cuz most gurls would say wait for the second or more but then lots of them r down for sex the first time same with guys. I say FUCK IT ALL dont plan that kinda shit if u 2 hit it off Fuck ya Giv'r y put like a rule on it when I first meet a gurl Im not like Oh Im gunna fuck the shit outta that Lol nope nope I say jus see what happends and hell if u end up fuckin cool shit right??? and if u dont same cool shit the relationship kinda went a diff turn now so jus go have fun and see where that leads u right people ????

Steve To Da MuddA Fuckin O

[dabbler]

i would NEVER sleep with someone on the first date.

[islandgirl]

i would never sleep with someone on the first date either.

[dabbler]

altho, i would most definitely sleep NEXT to someone on a first date,
if they happened to be sleeping at my house. when i'm really digging
someone, that my favourite thing ever.

[islandgirl]

yes...i agree with you dabbler...i love to cuddle.

[TrixX]

aww cuddling?? i wish all guys liked to cuddle

[dabbler]

there's nothing better.