Sex on the first date?

[MistressSpankME]

I dont think many people call them dates anymore, but making plans and hanging out with someone who you are, or could potentially be interested in, could count as what you would call a "date"

So my answer is no way. Sometimes I find it wierd that even though I'm a very sexual and open person, I still don't sleep with people unles i'm in a relationship with them for a while. Alot of people I just think don't deserve to have me give them something like that, if they want it too much, or go about the wrong ways of getting it (pressure, whining, trickery etc). Then fuck no. I'll fool around with them a bit if they are attractive, ok to be around, and I want to get my rocks off.

Then when I find someone who I would love to give that "gift" to (how lame, I even still call it a gift) then I wait because I dont want to ruin anything special with sex. Why jump into the good stuff off the bat when you have plenty of time to work up to it? Which is part of the fun anwyays, I find.

Then there's a small group of people (mostly girls it seems) who I call friends and who are attractive, who I care for, trust, admire, all that stuff, who I would sleep with in heart beat!

[Crazy Dave]

^ so you don't do anal on the first date... what about the second?

[MistressSpankME]

^ third time's the charm!!!

[crookedking]

instead of california roll we could eat baby roll?

[G-Style]

We need to start mass orgy's.
G

[soma]

every situation is different but I do have a rough time respecting a first date shag.

[Mo...]

if it was an absolutly great date and u can see urself datin again then fuc yeah!..............................

[Jrock]

No I wouldn't.. but I wouldn't have sex with anyone until I was in a serious relationship.

-jay :209:

[Bevvy Swift]

my only objection to sex on the first date is the fact that you got what you wanted in one date, so it leaves nothing to the imagination. as much as i hate being told to wait a few weeks or months or whatever, it makes the sex that much better when you finally do earn the sweet poontang

[Candy-Kid]

Yes i would

[lildonkey]

Only slutty girls fuck on the first date.

secondly.... theres no problem fucking on the first date... but only reason to keep in contact after that is booty calls only... not girlfriend material

[MistressSpankME]

Originally posted by lildonkey
Only slutty girls fuck on the first date.

[xx_kandy_xx]

well me n my boyfriend had sex on our "first date" its not bad.. we've been togeth 3 months since... lolhttp://www.fnk.ca/board/images/smilies/153.gif

[ryantron]

dates ARE fun ..depending on what is meant by a date..

[Sariel]

Originally posted by ryantron
dates ARE fun ..depending on what is meant by a date..

A date is what you make of it... personally, I am not one for the whole dinner and a movie thing... I tend to try and go on dates where it's interesting and fun for both of us...

[ryantron]

alright, then dates are fun.

[lildonkey]

Yah thats right mistrissslutbitch.. only sluts fuck on the first date

[Sariel]

Originally posted by ryantron
alright, then dates are fun.

Well.... at least dates with ME are fun.... I can't speak for anyone else. :kam:

[Rhianna]

Originally posted by lildonkey
Yah thats right mistrissslutbitch.. only sluts fuck on the first date

Well then it should really be only sluts and man who-ers have sex on the first date. Yeah that's right .....man who-ers.

[gslse]

Man who-ers! lol! I do agree though, Rhianna. Dude I used to work with prominantly spoke of his 200+ conquests. Definate man who-er. lol, again! I usually call 'em "male slots."
How come u don't do dates?

[KandyKid]

I think that if the people really connect and the feelings are mutual and both people want to do it, then there is no reason not to. I mean, why not? whether its on the first date, or the 10th date or a year down the road, whenever the couple is ready, go for it.

[Lady Dame]

depends on the person.....not really...
depends on how horney i am/ they get me.
MWAHAHAHAHAHAA

[Lady Dame]

Originally posted by MistressSpankME


Then there's a small group of people (mostly girls it seems) who I call friends and who are attractive, who I care for, trust, admire, all that stuff, who I would sleep with in heart beat!

*thinking*
hrmmmmmmmm....
can i take advantage of this??????


Jenna, wanna go drinking tonight???? :kam:

[Rytalin]

^OO OO ME TOO ME TOO
*grabs camera*

[galaxie]

Originally posted by KandyKid:
I think that if the people really connect and the feelings are mutual and both people want to do it, then there is no reason not to. I mean, why not? whether its on the first date, or the 10th date or a year down the road, whenever the couple is ready, go for it.

So true.

I almost did once...but we didn't. We both really wanted to, but we just couldn't do it. It was still an awesome night though... :kimmie: