I think the bastard that's using the computer beside me is touching himself...

yoko, he is clearly a sex addict, it is his cross to bear.

[crackdragon]

that isn't gum stuck to the bottom of the table!

[dabbler]

ew .

[stabmyhead]

.... I see dead people.... TOUCHING THEMSELVES!

[Heffy]

sorry. my bad.

[yoko*]

Originally Posted by Grapes

HE DON'T WANT, ANYBODY ELSE

WHEN HE TYPES BESIDE YOU, HE TOUCHES HIMSELF

I totally hummed that one out in my head
gj

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by yoko*

Why the FUCK do I always catch men doing this shit?

WHY!?

I don't want to look again because I don't want to be caught staring in his direction, but I also feel really uncomfortable sitting at this computer, wondering why his hand is always rested between his knees (i'm using my peripherals here) and why it keeps moving in weird motions.

FUCK. I want to embarass this fucker and yell out in the library what a sick fucking SICKO he is.. SO BAD.

you should embarass him. men who fondle themselves in public are pieces of shit who NEED to be put in their place.

edit-instead of "should" i would like to replace that with "should have" because i'm sure that guy is fondling himself in public beside some other chick.

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by yoko*

GOOD POINT. I THINK THAT IF HE IS LOOKING AT HIS COMPUTER AND NOT ME, THAT IT IS TOTALLY ACCEPTABLE FOR HIM TO JERK OFF IN A PUBLIC LIBRARY.

In the direction of his computer, but we locked eyes at ONE POINT earlier when I was wondering why someone was making heaving noises (not him, thankfully)

I moved ONE comptuer down.

and then you only moved one computer down!!!! lol.

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by FireWire

(The reason you're catching so many guys doing this is cause you're sexually paranoid and are always on the 'look out' for anything sexually inappropriate/violating. If you just chill and try to ignore these things, then you won't be feeling as disturbed all the time. You will see a lot more weird and creepy shit in your life, and there's no need to start letting the emotions of the moment ruin your general outlook on life...)

But hey, just so you know - pretty much every guy (mostly growing up and experimenting sexually) has tried to do something in public. If he's already a grownup and is doing it, however - then ya... you do have the right to feel concerned and alerted. Have you tried notifying the library staff to watch out for him? And also didn't you say something else in another thread about some dude watching porn in the library... is this all happening in the same library?

wtf? some of us were raised in families that frown upon jerking off in public.

obviously you weren't.

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by yoko*

I appreciate the attempt at a Freudian analysis BUT,

This is really just a small example of the kinds of shit I've seen. Let's go 3-4 years back. I was on the millenium skytrain closer to midnight, heading eastbound and I notice this bald-ish dude is stroking the tip of his cock (which is pretty much whipped uot of his jeans). I was kind of in shock so I didn't say anything and just stepped off the train ASAP. I remember wishing I had yelled at the fucker (he was looking in MY direction btw) afterwards, but you only really think about the appropriate things to say in these situations after the fact.

This is no lie - a week later, same day of the week (Friday) same time, and again on the millenium line but on the older carts, this time a different man. He has his dick whipped out of his jeans and he's shaking it at me (he's about 1 meter away)

So yeah, sexually paranoid? If I am, it's probably because I have a pretty fucking good reason to be.

it's funny (to me) because i remember these posts.

[FireWire]

Originally Posted by crookedking

wtf? some of us were raised in families that frown upon jerking off in public.

obviously you weren't.

Err - I actually wanted to say 'almost every guy growing up tried something sexual OUTDOORS' (but not necessarily in PUBLIC; although to many guys that is also a highly appealing choice).

So even if I wasn't raised in a family that frowned upon jerking off in public, I'd still just use my own common sense and shame to not do any such activity in public. Ever. That's just me though... cause I know there are obviously many people out there who seem to have no problem doing it in public for whatever reason. :S

And OK yoko... if I had witnessed such a thing as many times as you have already - I'd probably be paranoid too. So don't take offensively what I said - I just wasn't aware how many times this actually happen to you.

I think that if I was in your situation - I'd start to see how I can actually have fun with it... and make that perve feel some real shame, and maybe even fear of getting arrested. I'd try to find ways to expose their public perversion to all the surrounding people nearby, and maybe try to get some witnesses to remember his face and ban him from the facility/venue that he was doing it at.

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by FireWire

So even if I wasn't raised in a family that frowned upon jerking off in public, I'd still just use my own common sense and shame to not do any such activity in public. Ever. That's just me though... cause I know there are obviously many people out there who seem to have no problem doing it in public for whatever reason. :S.

how can you say that? if you were raised in a family that smiled upon jerking off in public you'd probably be doing it.

edit-not to say you're not already, though.

[NinjaBoy]

I don't think Firewire should ever talk about himself on this board. Everytime it ends Horribly.

Keep it strictly small talk.

"How's the weather?"
"Go canucks!" etc...

[Lil Jenna]

Originally Posted by crookedking

you should embarass him. men who fondle themselves in public are pieces of shit who NEED to be put in their place.

edit-instead of "should" i would like to replace that with "should have" because i'm sure that guy is fondling himself in public beside some other chick.

I'm not an expert on this subject but I think that if he was doing this in a public place he WANTS to get caught and gets off on being embarrassed. So if she said anything that might of been what he needed or was looking for. :sick:

It not a big surprise to me that some people in this world get off on doing things they shouldn't to themselves and others in public "taboo" places. Is it really to you?

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by Lil Jenna

I'm not an expert on this subject but I think that if he was doing this in a public place he WANTS to get caught and gets off on being embarrassed. So if she said anything that might of been what he needed or was looking for. :sick:

It not a big surprise to me that some people in this world get off on doing things they shouldn't to themselves and others in public "taboo" places. Is it really to you?

i'm not an expert either...i just assume things.

in my mind people who publicly jerk off are doing it because they like to make non-jerking off in public people feel uncomfortable. i don't think they want to be pointed at and laughed at until their dick shrinks into their balls by a couple dozen people.

[Lil Jenna]

^ That logic doesn't make sense to me. But whatever works :)

[crookedking]

maybe i think that way because if i was caught jerking off in public and had a bunch of people begin pointing and laughing at me i'd be embarassed. evidently you wouldn't be. we should ask an expert.

firewire? could you tell us what you would do in that situation?

[Lil Jenna]

^ haha I never said I wouldn't be.

Just, to me, the type of person that would get turned on by that would probably like the shame and embarrassment. Thats why they are doing it in the first place. You on the other hand don't get turned on by shame and embarrassment... thats why you feel the way you do.

But maybe we should turn the question to a person who knows more than the both of us...

[rawb]

NOT ME IM IN MIAMI, I HAVE WITNESSES

[yoko*]

Originally Posted by crookedking

if you were raised in a family that smiled upon jerking off in public you'd probably be doing it.
.

lol.
You are a series of funnies.
karmalarma

[ebbomega]

Wasn't there an entire undergrads episode about jerking it/having sex in the school library?

[NinjaBoy]

"You have a problem with people stealing books they can take out for free?"
"No, we have a problem with people masterbating in the stacks, it is your job to stop them. Or failing that clean up the mess after"

[veN]

Hahahah yes there was! Undergrads! Damn I miss that show...

[M.C. BEAR]

Originally Posted by Avana

yoko, he is clearly a sex addict, it is his cross to bear.

im the only cross to bear around here

[ebbomega]

or the only bear to cross?