Girl help

[ppcock]

Sorry Myra, this is going to be the only time I ever go on about a girl.


So... I've been seeing this girl (not officially gf standing yet.. thank god!) for a few weeks.
She's FUCKING FREAKY... Just my type... She gave me the most freakiest massage ever yesterday, scratching and everything.. I saw jesus.

The problem is, she's not a kisser. She doesnt like to kiss, I love to kiss
I've asked her why and she just responds with no.

This is the one thing I really don't like about her.. but, if i can overcome that.. she's got long term written all over her.

So my question is.. aside from knocking her out and kissing her, How should I go about either to A: get some tongue on tongue action, or B: find out as to why she doesnt like it and obviously try and get her back to the spirit.


/livejournal

[ebbomega]

PEE IN HER BUTT

(in before rawb)

[ppcock]

Honestly.. with this girl.. I think I could

[Phrenetic]

Treat them like shit

they love that

[wishbone]

a lot of hookers want an extra fee for kissing, it's not unreasonable.


JUST JOKES.

Seriously, just get her to tell you what her deal is. Maybe last manfriend of hers didnt brush his grill.

[ppcock]

srsly guys.. shut up.. I need assistance here.

[wishbone]

solve from the root of the problem. Convincing her won't make sense unless you know what her deal is. Get her talking. Wine helps.

[Pussy*Kat]

Marty if you really like this girl, and see it going somewhere then you have to seriously talk to her about it.

Dont take just "No" as an answer. Tell her your concern, that you enjoy kissing and find it a necessity in a relationship and then ask her reasoning for not feeling that way.

If she had a bad experiance ask if there is anything you can do to make her feel more comfortable or help her get past it.

IMO kissing is just as vital as sex in any relationship. Without it you're doomed from the start.

[ppcock]

She has a lot of trust issues with guys.. So I'll just take my time, but eventually I'll crack her (head open haahahahahaha jk)

I dont want to rush her.

[Pussy*Kat]

Having an open hearted discussion regarding the foundation of what makes a relationship isnt rushing her.

Its a concern of yours, and open communication is a major thing in any relationship. If you cant even talk to her about kissing how will you talk to her about more indept complex things later down the road?

Just sayin'

[Pussy*Kat]

P.S

If you didnt want our advice in what to do and planned on just "taking your" time why did you ask?

<3 talk to her babe

[dj_soo]

Originally Posted by ppcock

Sorry Myra, this is going to be the only time I ever go on about a girl.

DON'T MAKE ME DIG UP OLD POSTSa

[Gusto]

she lets you do other stuff right?

[ppcock]

I'm shy about that sort of thing.

This one is a bit different, she's also very shy. The last thing I want to do is put her in an uncomfortable situation, i mean.. yeah.. it's kissing, but she's the only girl I've ever met who doesnt like it. I will talk to her about it but I dont want to her to push me away.

[dj_soo]

Originally Posted by ppcock

She has a lot of trust issues with guys.. So I'll just take my time, but eventually I'll crack her (head open haahahahahaha jk)

I dont want to rush her.

SO IS THIS BASICALLY THE PART WHERE YOU ASK EVERYONE FOR ADVICE AND THEN COMPLETELY IGNORE IT? CAUSE I'M SENSING A BIT OF A TREND.a

[ppcock]

T: myra already caught me in a previous post. i told her this would be the only time.

Ryan: the weird thing is... yes.. that's why I cant believe she doesnt like kissing!
Like there's some problems up there.. it blows my mind that she'll let me do some adventuring, but she wont let me kiss her.

[ebbomega]

Wow, T is in caps mode.

Marty, you really need a blog. This is getting serious.

[brit]

Hate to say it, but maybe she is just a freak and not that into you.

I'd move on, if you are looking for more then that.

[ebbomega]

Also some people are just wired weird. Particularly the kinky ones.

[ppcock]

Yeah, as much as I hate to say it.. i'm starting to think you're right brit.

But then again.. we're going out on Saturday night and she wants to sleep over instead of going home.

WHAT HAPPENS NOW!? This girl confuses the fuck out of me and usually I can read people pretty good.. like +1 bouncing ability

[Pussy*Kat]

Marty, have you ever seen Pretty Women?

Well probally not, but...

Julia Roberts character is a hooker and she doesnt kiss on the lips either, because she feels its too intimate. Maybe this girl is like that too.

Maybe she needs to be really into you and have a strong connection before hand.

Possible ?

[Courtney]

to me not wanting to kiss symbolizes that she doesnt want to get serious
Like in pretty woman, a kiss is such a meaningful and deep thing that she won't kiss her clients because its too personal
maybe this girl is just havign fun and by kissing a lot she thinks its going to get too serious or something
or maybe shes just wierd
ask her

[ppcock]

Totally.. makes sense. I mean she is german (hopefully not a hooker)

but if she's not really into me, why is she sleeping over on Sat night!?

[Courtney]

ahhaha kat we just wrote that like at the same time

[ppcock]

Holy fuck.. that's it, I'm watching pretty woman tonight