Gay marriages

[lou_belle]

Originally Posted by galaxie

Does anyone else find it extremely ironic that lou_belle is preaching about the Bible and yet is going to have an open marriage? I wonder if "thou shalt not commit adultery" ever occurred to her.

Myra, I agree.
My husband, my family - stay the fuck out single bitches.

I've never read the bible. Maybe the bible is right on some things, if it just so happens that I have the same opinions.

The single girls are a way more interesting topic of conversation than your day at work:P Too bad for him.

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by lou_belle

Well, I think it's because I grew up being a tomboy. I always got along with the guys, or had mor fun with them. Girls would try to hang out with me, but I found that when there was more than just me hanging with the guys, I got the cold shoulder from my bros. I noticed the way guys didn't actually act like themselves around chicks, and honestly, guys are fuckin' G's when the girls are gone. I love being like another brother. Hanging with them my whole life, I saw the way guys just loved getting pussy. It doesn't matter if they are in a relationship or not, they constantly want to be able to say "Oh god, look at that nice round ass. That girl is asking for the ol' in out." I don't want my guy to feel like he can't be himself around me. So I join in. I can see that it makes every guy feel comfy just chillin' with me. I know I'm sexy, I don't need people to deny the fact that every girl is hot. In fact, that's the most exciting thing about being young. Hot ass girls. God, imagine if my guy was 40 years old after years of sexual suppression, and he felt like he missed out, because of me. That to me is reason enough to feel like ones life was a total let down on the entertainment side. It's all just entertainment to me. I know it doesn't mean he loves them. I don't need to be the center of my guys sexual fantasy. He can fantasize about whoever he likes. I just like being the dopest chika ever!! OF LIFE BIATCH?!

How old are you?

I feel sad for your kids, when you have them.

[lou_belle]

Originally Posted by Rhianna

Actually what I meant was.........say you have a daughter, she grows up gets married. Turns out the man that you all thought was so rad actually beats her (it happens), in front of her kids. Would you just tell her to be a better wife? Make the bed? Try harder? Even if he had no desire to get help at all?

You may think it's better for the kids to stay together no matter what but I can tell you right now that is not always the case. I'd go into detail w/ this but I don't think you are worth the time.

No one gets married to a man that beats them. It usually doesn't come out for years. You clearly know nothing about this topic. You are w/ out a doubt one of the most naive people I have ever seen on here.

If my daughter had a husband that beat her, I would take her in. I mean obviously, I'm going to have MY family strength that can help HER if something like that happened. I can't expect to have a daughter that is as tuned in to male behaviour as I. As long as I stick to my plan, my children will have nothing to worry about. But what I think would be the proper thing to do is give him equal custody. Just because a partner brings out rage in the other, doesn't mean the abuse justifies labelling the guy unfit to be a parent. Stealing children away and moving is CRUEL AND SELF RIGHTEOUS. You had children with this guy, the children deserve to be involved in their fathers life too. Is that so hard to belive?

[Rhianna]

^Well I thank god everyday my mum left my dad. I am 1237891 times happier. It was the smartest and BEST thing she ever did! I think I would have hated her for not doing it.

Sometimes dad's and mum's suck so much they don't deserve to have kids.

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by lou_belle

Well, I think it's because I grew up being a tomboy. I always got along with the guys, or had mor fun with them. Girls would try to hang out with me, but I found that when there was more than just me hanging with the guys, I got the cold shoulder from my bros. I noticed the way guys didn't actually act like themselves around chicks, and honestly, guys are fuckin' G's when the girls are gone. I love being like another brother. Hanging with them my whole life, I saw the way guys just loved getting pussy. It doesn't matter if they are in a relationship or not, they constantly want to be able to say "Oh god, look at that nice round ass. That girl is asking for the ol' in out." I don't want my guy to feel like he can't be himself around me. So I join in. I can see that it makes every guy feel comfy just chillin' with me. I know I'm sexy, I don't need people to deny the fact that every girl is hot. In fact, that's the most exciting thing about being young. Hot ass girls. God, imagine if my guy was 40 years old after years of sexual suppression, and he felt like he missed out, because of me. That to me is reason enough to feel like ones life was a total let down on the entertainment side. It's all just entertainment to me. I know it doesn't mean he loves them. I don't need to be the center of my guys sexual fantasy. He can fantasize about whoever he likes. I just like being the dopest chika ever!! OF LIFE BIATCH?!

Hahaha, my bf would dump you in a sec. You seem like a doormat.

[Rhianna]

Originally Posted by lou_belle

You had children with this guy, the children deserve to be involved in their fathers life too. Is that so hard to belive?

Really? Even if you walk in on him raping your little girl?

[lou_belle]

^^ GOD NO???? I thought we were talking about normal people here that after years in a relationship started becoming violent, or unfaithful.

[Rhianna]

^You said you'd NEVER get one! I had to ask.

[lou_belle]

Originally Posted by Rhianna

Hahaha, my bf would dump you in a sec. You seem like a doormat.

No, I think it's cuz I like girls so much. I would rather kiss the girl than slap her if my boyfriend wanted to have sex with her. We both have the exact same taste in girls. I'm just not a jealous person:) I'm not threatened by anyone.

[lou_belle]

Originally Posted by Rhianna

^You said you'd NEVER get one! I had to ask.

I WILL NEVER GET A DIVORCE :)

[Rhianna]

^Well then I hope for your kids that you are both perfect parents. Otherwise, your kids are fucked!

[lou_belle]

god, is it so hard to believe that I know my husband like the back of my hand? Have you guys ever heard of a relationship where you talk about everything openly? including sex? future plans?

Here's the shelter ^ and you must be under it somewhere.

[Rhianna]

^Yes i have heard of all the above.

Most of what I have being saying hasn't been about you and your bf. They were in general "what if" questions. I think I just found it hard to believe that you would never get a divorce even if staying w/ the man meant putting your children though emotional hell.

I guess that's because I know that once I have kids they will be #1 and if anyone seems to be doing any damage to them in any shape or form will be cut.

[lou_belle]

Originally Posted by Rhianna

^Well then I hope for your kids that you are both perfect parents. Otherwise, your kids are fucked!

You don't have to be perfect to be good parents:) But, the first step to be a good parent is to be in a relationship with a partner that you KNOW you would never have to leave, because you have talked bout every possibilty. and you KNOW the person like part of your family. I think that you know it's a good relationship when in the middle of every argument you start giggling and looking at each other like you are going to strangle the person:D in a playful annoyed way. We've been together 3 years and never gotten though an argument without an outburst of laughter, or a, "you are SOOO CUTE when you're mad" ;P

[wum]

Originally Posted by lou_belle

Well, I think it's because I grew up being a tomboy. I always got along with the guys, or had mor fun with them. Girls would try to hang out with me, but I found that when there was more than just me hanging with the guys, I got the cold shoulder from my bros. I noticed the way guys didn't actually act like themselves around chicks, and honestly, guys are fuckin' G's when the girls are gone. I love being like another brother.

but girlfriend's/wives are supposed to compell guys get their shit together :) it's not a bad thing that we cuss/fart less when girls are around. it's like we're earning something special this way.

[galaxie]

Rhianna, I can't even believe we're arguing with her.

She's co-dependent, no matter what we say!
It's OBVIOUS that she's JUST looking for acceptance, and can't have any real solid beliefs other than to please other people because she doesn't want people to be mad at her! @#$%

Originally Posted by lou_belle

Just because a partner brings out rage in the other, doesn't mean the abuse justifies labelling the guy unfit to be a parent.

So it's the woman's fault that the man has anger issues?
So if the kids "bring out the anger" in their father, it's OK for him to beat the shit out of them?

Ugh.

Originally Posted by lou_belle

The single girls are a way more interesting topic of conversation than your day at work:P Too bad for him.

Really?
Don't you think it's kind of pathetic that you wouldn't have other INTELLIGENT things in common to discuss rather than "Hey I fucked this hot bitch last night, her pussy was so tight!"? WTF?
I guess it's different for my man and I because we have fully functional brains and discuss things that actually MATTER.

Then again, Rhianna already said you're a doormat. And apparently, a damn good one at that!

[galaxie]

Originally Posted by lou_belle

We've been together 3 years and never gotten though an argument without an outburst of laughter, or a, "you are SOOO CUTE when you're mad" ;P

Yup, that's the best way to deal with your problems.
Laugh them off instead of getting to the root.

*sigh*

[galaxie]

Originally Posted by lou_belle

god, is it so hard to believe that I know my husband like the back of my hand? Have you guys ever heard of a relationship where you talk about everything openly? including sex? future plans?

Here's the shelter ^ and you must be under it somewhere.

haha
It's so funny that you think that all guys just want pussy, don't really care about their partners, and are incapable of being in a monogamous relationship.

Let me tell you, that's not the case. Just because your brothers and guy friends were fucking dogs doesn't mean that most guys are.

Stephen Harper WOULD be right about gay marriages leading to polygamous marriages if everyone had your views. 'Cause, if your guy likes boning other girls so much, why wouldn't he want to add another wife or two to his collection?

[Rhianna]

Funny, my bf and always seem to find 723487291429 more interesting to talk about than some girls ass. And when he does talk about other girls it's usually "Everytime I'm out w/ my friends and see what other girls are like, the more grateful I am to have you!"

Dear Nat, you're so rad. I love you.

[lou_belle]

Originally Posted by Rhianna

^Yes i have heard of all the above.

Most of what I have being saying hasn't been about you and your bf. They were in general "what if" questions. I think I just found it hard to believe that you would never get a divorce even if staying w/ the man meant putting your children though emotional hell.

I guess that's because I know that once I have kids they will be #1 and if anyone seems to be doing any damage to them in any shape or form will be cut.

Well, it's up to you as a mother to choose the right guy to be the father of your children. If you went with the wrong guy, then you are part of the emotional hell. It's your body, you decide when you want to have children.

If anyone seems to be doing any damage to them......damage comes in many shapes and forms. Damage comes in the form of divorce too. I think that many people use break-up as a threat, like the way you stated it. (This is for people in a "marriage type relationship")As in, "If I ever found you hitting our child, I would leave you right then and there." That to me sounds like the biggest load of BULLSHIT ever. Why would someone even think that about the partner that they're creating a family with. It's a negative way of thinking. Negativity induces negativity. You would never hear a happy couple say anything like that to one another. They have a silent understanding of their relationship. A couple should never stay together if they find themselves yelling at the top of their lungs at one another either. If you've said "I would leave you if you....." then I would suggest taking a closer look at the real connection you have with your mate. God, if my boyfriend said that to me I would be like...."who the fuck do you think I am.....you obviously don't know me."

[SomeGuy]

Originally Posted by Rhianna

"Everytime I'm out w/ my friends and see what other girls are like, the more grateful I am to have you!"

That's not what I usually say.. I usually say that you have a really hot ass and talk about it with my friends because there is nothing better in this world to talk about than a girls fine ass..

and let me tell you girl.. your ass is a perfect 10 I'd like to give you the good 'ol in-out sometime.

Love,
Conor

[galaxie]

Originally Posted by lou_belle

Well, it's up to you as a mother to choose the right guy to be the father of your children. If you went with the wrong guy, then you are part of the emotional hell. It's your body, you decide when you want to have children.

How do you feel about abortion?
Birth control can fail, condoms can break, even using the two together is not a fool-proof method.

What about a rape victim?
Should she have to keep the baby that some asshole created inside of her?

Don't even BOTHER answering those questions - my point is already inarguable. You do NOT always "decide" when you want to create a child.

[galaxie]

Originally Posted by Rhianna

Dear Nat, you're so rad. I love you.

Dear Rhianna, you are just as rad, if not radder, than I am. I also love you.

[Rhianna]

^Thanks fuck face. I *heart* you too.

Edit: Clearly for that crazy Surrey bf of mine.

[lou_belle]

Originally Posted by wum

but girlfriend's/wives are supposed to compell guys get their shit together :) it's not a bad thing that we cuss/fart less when girls are around. it's like we're earning something special this way.

Hey, I would never make a guy hold farts in. I mean, it's just natural. I would never fart though, I'm a cute little girl. We don't make stinky;P

I still am a girl, just a girl that my boyfriend knows he can talk about anything to. How is stopping having sexual feelings for other girls openly getting your shit together?